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Sat 04/26/08 08:09 AM

I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


She was just asking about the person u like.....love is a whole different subject............laugh flowerforyou

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Sat 04/26/08 07:51 AM
I can only take a couple times a week with the person I like. And if they would want to see me everyday that would not be cool:tongue: happy

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Tue 04/22/08 02:35 PM


next question?
it's not over yet. I would like to see how many wind up answering this one first before moving on to the next flowerforyou


Bravo!!!!drinker drinker

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Tue 04/22/08 02:34 PM

u are so sweetlaugh flowerforyou flowerforyou

rejection is a great part of life and motivation to the betterment, it is upto the individual, how to handle it, mine start with a rejection:wink: flowerforyou flowerforyou
there are to many heartaches that you wish would not encounter, as crawling between the covers and hiding your inner soul, as where your tending to not shout and hold back your tears as so much time has gone through, as feeling is this all real, as everything seems so at once crumbing upon down onder, will this pain ever stop thall i wonder, as where you search more towards your spiritual side, and listen to what is inside, as well have freedom of choice and happiness but yet failure that we tend to have to face once in awhile, as where to many changes that do occure, as where one may feel of rejection,



true..:cry: frown ohwell



Rejection hurts us all, the thing is remembering that it's not about u and to not take it personally. I like to call it non-compatibilty of the mind and soul. I

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Tue 04/22/08 02:27 PM
First the lack of unite among the parties, and the governments insisting that Americans are ignorant when it comes all aspects factual based results of their over spending.

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Tue 04/22/08 02:23 PM
Government use to be by the people for the people.

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Tue 04/22/08 10:15 AM
I was comin to see the event but got lost, I had a new dress to wear toolaugh laugh

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Mon 04/21/08 10:03 PM



U have a point of course but for me friendship comes first and then we can explore the mental and physical part of the relationship. And have ear ringing eyeball rolling sex.laugh laugh


Well of course. If that part needs to be explained to anyone..well they have a LOT to learn. flowerforyou

That's also what I meant about the psychy..its all the emtional and mental factors within that person. The two people should CONNECT and have the same mindset...you know..CLICK! bigsmile

The "psychy" or mental/emotional part is a HUGE part that is a MUST for things to work well. Again great sex is NOT just a physical act, its a combination of core things.

Then is when you get to the great sex where you can;t walk for at least 10 min after because you have no strength to do so. drinker laugh flowerforyou


laugh laugh laugh drinker

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Mon 04/21/08 09:46 PM



i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while. smokin


I think it's not taking time sex happens to soon and you aren't fiends first. Then u find out later that this person is not who u first thought they were and sex becomes less attractive as the person does. The spark was not cultivated slowly. Just my opinion :tongue:


Agreed in some cases, but not in most. flowerforyou

Sex is something within itself and we are ALL made sexual creatures...thats just simple fact.

But psychy does play a HUGE role in it as well. It's NOT just a physical act..at least the great stuff isn;t.

Unfortunately most guys don;t understand that you make love to a woman, starting with her MIND! Even just the "sex for sex" still works the same way...much better if you go through her MIND to get her aroused...then her body follows.

So guys, you want to get her in the "mood", do things that will get her in the "mood". There's always going to be times when you don't feel like having sex, and just not interested. But even that can be overcome when done in the right ways. I had a stronger sex drive than my wife, so I had to learn how to get her "in the mood" and did it the RIGHT WAY (there are wrong ways to go about it too) And never once did she not also very much enjoy it as well....even though she started out "not in the mood". flowerforyou


U have a point of course but for me friendship comes first and then we can explore the mental and physical part of the relationship. And have ear ringing eyeball rolling sex.laugh laugh

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Mon 04/21/08 09:35 PM



sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no.


Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience.happy

Friends first, always.


Thank u Jonny..........nice to see u how are u doing?

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Mon 04/21/08 09:31 PM

sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no.


Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience.happy

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Mon 04/21/08 09:26 PM

i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while. smokin


I think it's not taking time sex happens to soon and you aren't fiends first. Then u find out later that this person is not who u first thought they were and sex becomes less attractive as the person does. The spark was not cultivated slowly. Just my opinion :tongue:

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Mon 04/21/08 09:10 PM
I never had any problems with it, even near the end.....hell even the last night :tongue: drinker

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Sun 04/20/08 04:32 PM
Got up posted, had lunch with a friend and chatted with a few people and the day is still young..:tongue:

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Sun 04/20/08 11:30 AM

deer and the baby was inside her until my car seperated her in 2


OMG! didn't need to hear that one............nothing personal

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Sun 04/20/08 11:27 AM

I'm not a lesbian, but you are hot! Lookin' good, chica!! flowerforyou


Me either...laugh laugh laugh You are too sweetie thanks...flowerforyou happy

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Sun 04/20/08 11:24 AM




laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh ...thats OK Rapunzel...he's still stuck in his bathroom.......laugh laugh laugh




hahahahaha...laugh laugh laugh



thanks....:heart: :heart: flowerforyou






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hahaha

I get it.............laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 04/20/08 10:20 AM

So last night I am out with friends, and we walk into this one bar and there is a girl behind me in line ranting and raving about her boyfriend, if she finds him here he's gonna pay ect ect.

This guy bumps into me and says excuse me, then he goes, hey I like your tatoos, blah blah..just conversation, nothing beyond that so we talk for a second and he asks me how old they were, blah blah...

This girl (same one) walks up to us and sprays him with peper spray, Which if you know anything about this stuff, is pretty toxic, I duck and run out of the bar.

I spent a few hours in the ER last night getting my eyes flushe, taking a breathing treatment, and this aweful tasting sutff to coat my throat. (I have an eye that is not the best, so I am careful with my vision, and I am a singer)

She got arrested, and the 10 other people who got hit with this stuff filed reports.

I hope for her safety she sits in jail a long time........


That is insanity in it's purest form. that girl need boyfriend anonymous I'm quiet sure they have 12 or 24 steps for this one. Sorry u had to go through that along with all the other people who's evening an health she could of really effected.flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 04/20/08 10:12 AM

Staple a pelt from a road kill racoon to your head.


I tried that, only problems is the goo and the bugs would stay hide. I think sometimes a bag over the head just gives u that special "I'm ready for anything" kinda look.........laugh laugh

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Sun 04/20/08 10:10 AM





Anybody have any tips on how to revive dead hair? I think that I have dyed it one too many times or something.


I use Redkins Hot oil and their silky soft conditioner

Do you mean Redken All soft? Silky soft isnt part of their line..


Yeah Yeah........I haven't had my coffee yet and then I'd have to call my hairdresser. It comes in a light kinda yellowish tan bottle. So are u a Redken groupie or what........laugh laugh


LOL, No Im not a groupie..I carry their line in my salon..


Ah very cool an expert at the game of beautyhappy happy flowerforyou

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