in years passed, society has demanded, from young, growing boys, that they not fight, get dirty, seek adventure, and in every sense taken away from them what ultimately teaches a young boy how to be a man. what young man do you know, when asked, wants to be a tame, bored, man when he grows up? it is in every mans heart to seek adventure, beat the bad guys, and rescue the beautiful damsel in distress. i see so many men these days that are genuinely concerned with how they look! highlighted hair, waxed eyebrows, and even carrying murses! who raised these boys? who taught them how to be women!? it drives me crazy to see what was intended to be the driving force in every male, in their heart, to be taken away and then told that it is wrong and that they should be more sensitive. if you remember adam was made outside the garden of eden, in the wild, in the image of god. eve was made inside the garden surrounded by beauty. it was intended for males to seek danger, adventure, and that is what defines a man, when he finds his heart. i get tired of reading "where have all the men gone?"