Being Canadian; we now how to deal with winter but it usually means lots of alcohol. LOL
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His name is Tristan. Apart of me will love him always No you can't forget Nothing can compare Guess it wasn't that important to me. Can't remember his name; what he looked like; or even where we met; so yes I certainly did forget. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Fri 11/21/14 10:29 PM
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not a thing wrong with older guys who think and act younger than their age! There is nothing wrong with enjoying life but acting like an idiot is not mature. Its not about drama; its about being responsible. I could not be seen in public with a 50 year old man that behaved like a 20 year old. I would also accord that respect to a guy not to behave in an irresponsible manner so he would not be embarrassed by me. I am sure when you are at work; you have a protocol to follow or you wouldn't have a job. There is a time and place for everything and one's behaviour. However; to each his or her own. |
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You are kind but I am not a catch for anyone and I have known that for years. I agree though about being with people our own age. I hope you too will find what you are looking for. Cheers Navy Girl; I offered you my help two years ago when you could not get your instruments unplugged before band rehurssal. What are you talking about? |
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It couldn't be said better. Live without sex is a living death. Our creator provided us with nerves and sensors to perceive pleasure because we were made in HIS image. Pleasure lead us to "Peace", relaxation and balance, and that is a state of the enjoyment way of living. A living death? Are you serious? LOL People do indeed live a happy life without sex. I wonder what most people would do if their partner that they loved could no longer provide them sex? Do you trade them in for a better model? Have you heard of inner peace. Finding inner peace has nothing to do with sex. There is a reason that as we age that we can no longer procreate and yes people do lose interest in sex. As I stated before; I know of a few couples that simply don't have sex anymore but dearly love each other and have been married for over 25 years. |
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Topic:
high heels/long legs
Edited by
navygirl
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Wed 11/19/14 05:34 PM
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Me its runners and sweats. High heels hurt my back and my hairy legs would rip through the stockings.
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how will you know a man loves you genuinely in a relationship Haven't got a clue. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Wed 11/19/14 05:26 PM
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I think everyone needs their own space. And desperation is a turnoff... |
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Topic:
older women, younger men
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I don't see any reason why it wouldn't if your focus is on your partners age and what people say as opposed to your feeling towards your partner irrespective of the outside world.... a big YES it would absolutely work Its not just the age; its the maturity. A guy 10 years younger than I could be on the same maturity level but not a guy 20 or 30 years younger. It would be like adopting a son. LOL |
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Topic:
"Being Too Nice"
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Being too nice gets you used and being too mean pushes people away.. You should be nice but you should also put your foot down if you have to... Just be yourself. Too much in either direction can cause you problems. |
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not a thing wrong with older guys who think and act younger than their age! Except when they act so immature that it is in embarrassing. |
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Sex is not necessary but is certainly desirable. I know of several couples that have been married over 25 years; don't have sex but still have a loving relationship.
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Yep; I did forget the first one as its just wasn't that important. I was young and very stupid so I like to forget stupid mistakes.
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Topic:
facts
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why do people always take relationship for a game Not a lot of smart people out there. Eventually; those who play games do get burnt. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Mon 11/17/14 01:08 PM
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Hello everyone I am new here so thought just to make A post and hope I don't get hate male . So first I am what they call A cougar I am attracted to younger men not only because I find them to be more attentive there is no gender bias in the relationship , women also tend to out live men , young men now all don't watch or buy porn , I find the younger men are also much better looking , more adventurous , have the stamina I need and tend to be much more caring . I hope to find mr right here . I am willing to relocate to other place's in Canada if that is necessary for me to be with my mr right . God.. why do us "old guys" even bother to get out of bed in the morning... we've been reduced to "raisins"..."Fossils".. at deaths door. best to you in your search :) You shouldn't take it personally. I get guys here all the time saying they want a younger, prettier, thinner girl as us old gals aren't good enough. I am seen lots of insults against older women on these forums. I just laugh it off and really you should too. Just consider where the comments are coming from. Well to that I would say to those guys.. "later sucker".. I would think you a great catch for any man ;) I don't take it personally at all. the cougar & man version of cougar ( whatever they call themselves) has always cracked me up. Growing up we were taught to "play with kids" our own age... it may be behind the times now, politically incorrect or just not fashionable... but I still like that rule. So I prefer women in my general age bracket (A lot more to talk about after the physical thing wears off) But that's just me.. and to each his own. I wish the OP the best in her search. You are kind but I am not a catch for anyone and I have known that for years. I agree though about being with people our own age. I hope you too will find what you are looking for. Cheers |
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Topic:
stuck up!
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There indeed are lots of gold diggers and very shallow people but not just here; they are out there in every day life. Fact is people don't really want honesty as relationships are built on lies. People try to justify them so they are only white lies so that they won't hurt the person but they are lies none the less. As metal wing says; try the forums and see what happens. I'm really hoping you don't think this about everyone. Yes; I do but as I said its white lies. Like for example when a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit; and the guy says no. He is lying. When a woman tells a guy he did a good job fixing something to stroke his ego but really he didn't do a great job. They are both lying but it seems to make the other person happy. hummmmm, I don't lie. Go ahead and say I do, that would be wrong. 1st off, you don't ask open ended questions if you already know you look fat, do something about it. Don't look for a lie to stroke your ego into staying fat. 2nd, a man will want to please a woman by doing things for her. There are always ways to look for the silver lining without negativity. Some things men can do better than women, and vice verse. "Gee honey, thank you so much for helping me with that, I couldn't have done it without you." Nope, I don't lie, white lies included. You evaded the second scenario. Yes he helped you but did the project wrong, say hung a shelf crooked; cut laminate flooring too short to reach the wall and you have a gaping gap. You would not tell him that? You can still thank him but tell him that there is something wrong. If you don't; then you are lying. I think you can be diplomatic when you are saying something negative. There is a difference if a guy says you need to lose weight or if he says wow; you are fat. and I'm going to evade police tactics in questioning. My father was a cop, remember? I was also ARMY, come from a military family also. You want it done right, if nothing is good enough, then do it yourself. Perfect; then you answered my question without giving me the actual answer. |
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Topic:
stuck up!
Edited by
navygirl
on
Mon 11/17/14 12:32 PM
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There indeed are lots of gold diggers and very shallow people but not just here; they are out there in every day life. Fact is people don't really want honesty as relationships are built on lies. People try to justify them so they are only white lies so that they won't hurt the person but they are lies none the less. As metal wing says; try the forums and see what happens. I'm really hoping you don't think this about everyone. Yes; I do but as I said its white lies. Like for example when a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit; and the guy says no. He is lying. When a woman tells a guy he did a good job fixing something to stroke his ego but really he didn't do a great job. They are both lying but it seems to make the other person happy. hummmmm, I don't lie. Go ahead and say I do, that would be wrong. 1st off, you don't ask open ended questions if you already know you look fat, do something about it. Don't look for a lie to stroke your ego into staying fat. 2nd, a man will want to please a woman by doing things for her. There are always ways to look for the silver lining without negativity. Some things men can do better than women, and vice verse. "Gee honey, thank you so much for helping me with that, I couldn't have done it without you." Nope, I don't lie, white lies included. You evaded the second scenario. Yes he helped you but did the project wrong, say hung a shelf crooked; cut laminate flooring too short to reach the wall and you have a gaping gap. You would not tell him that? You can still thank him but tell him that there is something wrong. If you don't; then you are lying. I think you can be diplomatic when you are saying something negative. There is a difference if a guy says you need to lose weight or if he says wow; you are fat. |
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Topic:
stuck up!
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Everyone either has lied, lies ay some point, and most likely will at some point, example; you ,your husband or bf whatever and your kid walking through a dark alley, two mask men jumps out the bushes, your kid run and hides, you know where your kid run,the men wants your kid and yells, "tell me where is the kid",lol what are you going to say???((fleta) Good point. |
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Topic:
stuck up!
Edited by
navygirl
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Mon 11/17/14 11:04 AM
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There indeed are lots of gold diggers and very shallow people but not just here; they are out there in every day life. Fact is people don't really want honesty as relationships are built on lies. People try to justify them so they are only white lies so that they won't hurt the person but they are lies none the less. As metal wing says; try the forums and see what happens. I'm really hoping you don't think this about everyone. Yes; I do but as I said its white lies. Like for example when a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit; and the guy says no. He is lying. When a woman tells a guy he did a good job fixing something to stroke his ego but really he didn't do a great job. They are both lying but it seems to make the other person happy. Check out this link. http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lying-and-deception/what-lovers-lie-about.html |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Mon 11/17/14 10:44 AM
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Hello everyone I am new here so thought just to make A post and hope I don't get hate male . So first I am what they call A cougar I am attracted to younger men not only because I find them to be more attentive there is no gender bias in the relationship , women also tend to out live men , young men now all don't watch or buy porn , I find the younger men are also much better looking , more adventurous , have the stamina I need and tend to be much more caring . I hope to find mr right here . I am willing to relocate to other place's in Canada if that is necessary for me to be with my mr right . God.. why do us "old guys" even bother to get out of bed in the morning... we've been reduced to "raisins"..."Fossils".. at deaths door. best to you in your search :) You shouldn't take it personally. I get guys here all the time saying they want a younger, prettier, thinner girl as us old gals aren't good enough. I am seen lots of insults against older women on these forums. I just laugh it off and really you should too. Just consider where the comments are coming from. |
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