One note though...

No one should have too long of a list. That's like hunting for some kind of perfection. Rules will be broken and what a lot of people forget about relationships is that people are people and will make mistakes. An important part of any relationship I think is the ability and willingness of both parties to work through each others shortcomings even when your lover and best friend stumbles.

Ps. As long as it doesn't degenerate into the "Same sh*t different day!" scenario!!! :)

Emotionally stable for 1 :) Haha. I love you, I hate, I want to marry you, can we just be friends, etc. Someone who can make up their mind and not make people crazy in the process.

2) Attractive - To me at least. This could be physical or personality wise. Always good to have both

3) Honest.

4) positive - A complainer, no :). In other words, someone pretty good at making lemon juice! :D

Okay I'm done >:)

sororitygurl4life: Thxs ;)

catchme_ifucan: Thanks for the welcome :) I'm liking it here!

I can actually relate all too well. I can't stand being single myself.
But it's been hard to find someone I want to date that I'm completely
attracted to.

Dating is not easy. If you really like a girl and you take it slow, she
dumps you because she things you're a wimp. If ur too fast? Well, just
my experience, but fast relationships just never seem to last.

I just saw 'Stranger than fiction' tonight, by-myself... It was a great
movie, but I felt like I had a hole in my chest right after...