Wouldn't it be nice if there was somewhere people could meet that was safe and didn't need a credit card. OK the truth, I am married and looking, but that doesn't mean I'm want to risk disclosure by using the family credit card...! It bad enough that you get 1000's of scams emails after responding to a few sites. But, I guess that's "paying the fiddler". I just want to find a woman in my area that has a similar situation. Lonely, but not willing to leave for the kids. Anytime I find someone I have to join with the C Card. Bob the #1 Builder.