Wouldn't it be nice if there was somewhere people could meet that was safe and didn't need a credit card. OK the truth, I am married and looking, but that doesn't mean I'm want to risk disclosure by using the family credit card...! It bad enough that you get 1000's of scams emails after responding to a few sites. But, I guess that's "paying the fiddler". I just want to find a woman in my area that has a similar situation. Lonely, but not willing to leave for the kids. Anytime I find someone I have to join with the C Card. Bob the #1 Builder.

if you're lonely, go bowling or find some other activity to keep you occupied.

you give guys a bad rap, and make most other woman cautious about getting involved with anyone, in case they are in a situation similar to yourself.

i don't begrudge those that fall in love with another, but to actually be actively searching sounds a bit predatory and selfish to me.

you wont and prolly should not move onto another relationship before the one your in is over...

No spam and unending e-mails from this site. You can adjust your settings to never get a thing in your regular e-mail from Mingle.
Second, this is not much of a 'hit it and quit it' site for sex or extra-marital adventures. Most of the folks here are looking for something more substantial in their lives.

And you can do this site without a credit card. But feel free to do the upgrade, as it helps the owners.

Boy, no sympathy here. Love the old "for the sake of this kids" thing. Geeeez if you get in bed with your wife after catting around, you could spread a disease to your poor wife which is not good for her or the kids, is it? And seeing or finding out daddy is cheater, not good for the kids. Seeing mom get hurt by daddy over the mighty cheating issue, not good for the kids. I hope she doesn't beat you to the punch out there and do harm to the kids, either. Do what's best for your wife and kids. Get a divorce and cat around without the excuses.

as im sure your kids will tell you when they are older, parents who stay together purely for the sake of the kids, only end up hurting the kids - if you love your kids you wont put them through it and you will respect them enough to be honest and do the whole 'mummy and daddy dont live together anymore but we both still love you' routine.

its no wonder girls like me cant trust guys - when there are so many guys looking for a bit on the side or no strings - i even met a really nice guy out one night when i was clubbing, asked him striaght if he was taken, married, kids etc and he said no to all of it - couple fo weeks later, he admitted it! - i mean come on - i have more self respect - do you?

I hear what you're saying but with respect - I don't know that this is the site for you.

All the women that I've chatted to are genuinely nice people and I've made some good friends along the way.

The Mingle ladies deserve better and the Mingle men, I'm sure, won't want to be tarred with the same brush.

Just my opinion

Why should you find any place that's free and trustworthy, when everything with your family (wife and kids) is NOT free and you definitely from what I can tell aren't trustworthy...Mingle isn't about sex partners or people with the same marital issues..

And, I agree that staying with your wife just for the kids will ruin almost everything. Your wife will develop hate for you and when she finds out you've been cheating, it's going to be hell in court for you...Your kids will despise you..but hey, who am I or anyone else to judge you, we don't know your reasons for this...maybe your wife feels the same way, she just can't come out and say it for the sake of the "kids". I think you two should sit down and talk about your problems, go to counciling or just get divorced, now that would be best for the "kids".

Oh and FYI we all like to give our two cents. lol

so, what I get here, is that you are complaining because there aren't sites built to make it easier for you to betray your wife?

You not only are unfaithful to her but you want some one to make it easier?

Not to mention some woman will come on here & claim all men are like this because of this guys actions!

2 words...ESCORT SERVICE!! be seeing you

There is one place,

That is not going to check for a credit card.....it's called YOUR OWN BEDROOM MIRROR

Take a step back, look at your wife, your kids, what you have made out of it, and if you still can't see it working, then END it. But you say you stay for the kids....let me get this right.


You want to cheat on your wife, you will eventually be found out then what is this going to cause?

Fights between you and your wife, you deciding if you want to work it out at the point, perhaps counseling....if not you stay but fight all the time(which I hear KIDS love to see their parents fight) geez

Or you end up in a messy divorce process that could have been made easier if you had been a MAN in the first place and tried talking it out and telling your wife how you are feeling....which I hear is great for the kids as well....


So honestly no sympathy

We all take heat because of guys like you.

Hope you've been back to read all of this Mr Builder. Might seem harsh to you, but there's not a word been written that isn't true.

He wants a free ride..his wife nor his kids could bring him to give up his selfish acts. I blame internet porn! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWEjvCRPrCo

He asked you a specific question and he did not ask your opinions about morality, marriage, kids.....etc . It seems you are all marriage counsellors in a dating site..... .

There are lots of free sites that don't require a credit card- you can google them-

I hope that answers your question- im not touching the other stuff you wrote!

Our site doesn't send spam. You choose whether you wish to be notified when people contact you or not to be.

We also do not require a credit card. Almost all of the features on this site are free. If you're asked for a card, you most likely clicked an ad, as this is a Google website. Either that, or you're choosing one of the very few options we require payment for.

Be well,

Lori
Moderator

This is not a dating thread. The topic is Misc Advice, Help and Support.

He is getting a lot of all of the above. The only post that appears inconsistent is yours.

Quoted for truth!