Men are hunters, women are nutrurers. It is a biologically, historically genetic fact encoded into our basic human nature. It also depends on the woman, can she be everything her man wants her to be, just like a woman wants her man to be everything she needs him to be. It is a delicate intimate balance between two individual people because people change, if a man a woman can change together, they get married, have a family, live happily ever after and everything else hollywood would have you believe. In real life however, things are not as simple. Do you respect and accept the man in your life as he is, as women demand to be accepted, appreciated, and respected for who they are? It's a two way street. You can't blame one without looking for the causes in the other.