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Wed 09/16/09 12:27 AM

I have found that 50+ men are not interested in women their age.


Although it is true that some are not, for a variety of reasons, it is more likely that you will find those men who are definitely interested in those of their age group, with whom they have a common history. Because they actually by far outnumber the few who are just looking for a hot young babe.

In my experience there are many who believe that age really doesn't matter, and with the right person, it does not. So don't give up, keep looking, Love is Patient..., He's out there. whoa :thumbsup:

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Mon 09/14/09 11:55 PM


It's the stupid ones who need the advice. :smile:

What other advice do you have?



Once the wise stop taking advise under consideration, they cease to be wise


Bingo! :thumbsup:

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Mon 09/14/09 11:42 PM

corny, but Id demand we all follow the golden rule ' treat others AT least as well as you WANT(not expect) to be treated (if not better)'


Not corny at all.
There is a reason it is called the Golden Rule. If everyone followed it then all the other qualities would also be a part of their behavior as well.

smile2 :thumbsup:

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Mon 09/14/09 11:10 PM

You are all missing the one question that is being asked.



I can't speak for everyone, but I chose to ignore it to address a more important issue. Bush bashing was inappropriate when he was president, and even less appropriate now.

So fine, I will answer the question. Since I will be busy saving a life, or dying in the attempt, the only pics taken will be by someone else. If I am successful in my attempt to save his life, beautiful, full color portrayal is in order. If I am unsuccessful and we both perish, black and white would fit the tone of the event more appropriately. whoa tongue2

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Mon 09/14/09 08:43 AM
A perfect illustration of the importance of having the right attitude.
We could all learn from this.

Perhaps this is why he chose to make "The Passion of the Christ"...
his way of giving back after what God did for him?

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Mon 09/14/09 08:35 AM
This is a no-brainer. I try always to take the high road when given a choice. So it doesn't matter whose name you insert as the person in mortal peril. If it is in my power to save a life I do it.

The alternative, a decision to promote a career, merely ensures a good living. But what good is that if my conscience will not let me live with my decision?

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Mon 09/14/09 06:14 AM




I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF IT IS TRUE WOMEN OVER FIFTY DONT LIKE SEX ANY MORE


Are you kidding? I'm almost 58 and can't think of a day in my adult like that I did like sex



Am I reading this right? Did you say "did like"??
Oh my! That is so sad...:cry: sad2tears

I'm more of a twice a day gal myself :wink: :thumbsup:

See one should not post with only an hours sleep....that should have read ..DIDN'Tblushing I can't remember a day I didn't like sex



I am SOOO relieved to hear that! :banana: :banana:

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Mon 09/14/09 01:39 AM
"I daily continue to try to be both a strong woman and a woman of strength… "

Amen. Excellently stated. :thumbsup:

I too try to live my life this way. And some days I actually succeed.

blushing :wink:

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Sun 09/13/09 11:55 PM


I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF IT IS TRUE WOMEN OVER FIFTY DONT LIKE SEX ANY MORE


Are you kidding? I'm almost 58 and can't think of a day in my adult like that I did like sex



Am I reading this right? Did you say "did like"??
Oh my! That is so sad...:cry: sad2tears

I'm more of a twice a day gal myself :wink: :thumbsup:

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Sun 09/13/09 04:46 PM

We all have personal values and social priorities, the things we enjoy in and need from other people ie. loyalty, honesty, generosity

But if you only had to pick one, just one key thing that you could demand from all the people around you, what would it be?


Love

Because in its pure form, it encompasses all the other aspects/virtues one could possible ask or imagine

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Sat 09/12/09 11:34 AM



As I understand, it simply means the one person on the whole planet with whom you and that other are the most perfectly matched. The very most suited to be happy for a life time.

Some people think we each get only one soul mate, some like myself believe that you can have more than one. Now there is a topic for discussion!!!!!


The whole planet, huh? Then, as I see it, chances are slim to none of ending up with that person. Besides, I don't think perfection exists.



Not everyone does meet there soul mate. Perhaps those that have not are the ones who don't believe such relationships exist?? AND I never said anything about perfect, best possible fit is more like it.




Most of us are not fortunate enough to meet our soulmate. I don't know why it is so rare to do so.
I have met only two couples who were blessed with this gift. One was my parents, who were married nearly 60 years. I grew up fully expecting to find mine, yet I am still waiting and hoping.

And, no, it doesn't mean that life will be rosy and blissfully perfect. Soulmates are still people who make mistakes, just like all of us. The difference is that they are usually more motivated to work on their relationship.

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Sat 09/12/09 10:48 AM
Wow.
Sometimes we all go through difficult times, and it's really hard to deal with the stressors without someone to share it with.

You mentioned that you have other friends that you moved away from. Do you have someone you could call and talk to?

It would be optimal for you to get involved in a local group where you could meet some people, but it sounds like your jobs keep you pretty busy.

You did the right thing posting to the forum. Because you aren't really alone, you know.

Don't give up...I give you back a quote from your own profile:

"You cannot change fate. However, you can rise to meet it, if you so choose."

waving :thumbsup: winking

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Sat 09/12/09 10:24 AM


love yeah

Scrabble no



Well said, Quietman...
My writing skills are not that succinct.
So I obviously have to use alot more words to get my point across !

Will love endure? It depends on alot of factors.
The trust will be shaken, both people will be changed, and the relationship will be forever altered.
If there was cheating, there was never real love there in the first place, at least on the part of the cheater.
The relationship had its problems, any of millions of possibilities there...
The wronged partner will respond based on the depth of love he/she has.
Because love endures.
The resulting decisions to be made will depend on the personalities and degree of love both persons have, the quality of the relationship, about a million other factors, and communication, communication, communication.
Every person/every couple will have a different outcome.


But, yeah...
Love is not destroyed by the stupid mistakes we all make.
But some mistakes forever destroy relationships.

No scrabble sad tears

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Sat 09/12/09 09:26 AM

Love should not be one sided,
Love is, if I do something for you
You in return do something for me,


for you maybe, but not for me

i think love is doing something for someone without expecting anything at all in return.

i don't love with conditions. i just simply love.




I agree with what you are saying,Papersmile, because real love is unconditional.
But what Leander is describing is a loving relationship, in which both love, and both put the other first.
The ideal.
And there are oh, so few of them.

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Sat 09/12/09 09:19 AM
I couldn't have said it better.
You are looking for the real thing, and hopefully your search will lead you to the right person SOON. I know she's out there...:thumbsup:

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Thu 09/10/09 12:15 PM



I have an account at "true.com". Supposedly, I am getting hits from women as young as 18-22 years of age wanting to date me. Many of these women are "sweet young things". I am kind of skeptical since I am not seeking out younger women in my profile. I think it is a trick by "true.com" to get me to buy a membership. Here, the site is free. So, if younger females respond in the "affirmative", the "true.com" messages might be for real. Give me your honest opinion.



After reading your question and viewing your profile, my gut reaction was "They are after your money". I went ahead to read all the other posts, (and heartily agree with most of them, however repeating what they have said would not be helpful to you), yet only one person has even addressed the obvious....

Even if given the benefit of the doubt that these youngsters are not recruiting you to that dating website as a paid member, even if they are not attempting to redirect you to a porn site, even if they simply saw your profile and decided to respond,what is the attraction? .......
My guess is that they see the word "legal", and think "wealthy attorney, unattached, no alimony eating it up, etc..."

I have a good friend, who actually is wealthy, and was contacted a few years back by not one, but two young women....35 years younger than he. He had the good sense to see them for what they were looking for, and ignore them. And, within a year he was introduced to, and is now happily involved in a relationship with a woman just 6 years younger than he. I have never seen him more content.

So go ahead, contact these young girls if you wish. But just be careful. It may cost you more than you are anticipating.


well said.



Thankyou happy

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Thu 09/10/09 11:20 AM
Edited by Imagem on Thu 09/10/09 11:43 AM

I have an account at "true.com". Supposedly, I am getting hits from women as young as 18-22 years of age wanting to date me. Many of these women are "sweet young things". I am kind of skeptical since I am not seeking out younger women in my profile. I think it is a trick by "true.com" to get me to buy a membership. Here, the site is free. So, if younger females respond in the "affirmative", the "true.com" messages might be for real. Give me your honest opinion.



After reading your question and viewing your profile, my gut reaction was "They are after your money". I went ahead to read all the other posts, (and heartily agree with most of them, however repeating what they have said would not be helpful to you), yet only one person has even addressed the obvious....

Even if given the benefit of the doubt that these youngsters are not recruiting you to that dating website as a paid member, even if they are not attempting to redirect you to a porn site, even if they simply saw your profile and decided to respond,what is the attraction? .......
My guess is that they see the word "legal", and think "wealthy attorney, unattached, no alimony eating it up, etc..."

I have a good friend, who actually is wealthy, and was contacted a few years back by not one, but two young women....35 years younger than he. He had the good sense to see them for what they were looking for, and ignore them. And, within a year he was introduced to, and is now happily involved in a relationship with a woman just 6 years younger than he. I have never seen him more content.

So go ahead, contact these young girls if you wish. But just be careful. It may cost you more than you are anticipating.

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