I am an intelligent, loving, and caring woman. My faith is really important to me, and I'm a Christian who loves the Lord. I feel like I don't have a problem meeting men;I'm really outgoing, charming, and personable. But I do have a hard time meeting the right men, Christian men. There are no single guys at my church, unless you're looking for one in their 20's/30's. Or maybe there are single men my age at church, but I will probably never know it. For the past several years I feel like the church has really been missing a huge demographic of singles in their late 30's to late 40's, and up. I hear so many women and men around this age group saying, "There are no single women/men at my church!" And clearly they are everywhere, but there is a lack of ministries for them where they can get together and fellowship with one another. This has been frustrating to say the least, and I wonder if there are others who feel the same, or if anyone knows of some great thriving christian singles groups in the Seattle area?

I just keep thinking it shouldn't be this hard. I'm fun-loving, attractive, driven, have a compassionate heart for people, funny, loyal, and ready to share my life with someone. I really like where I am now, and I knew I didn't want to get married until I was in my 40's. Yes, I believe God has someone wonderful me!! Beyond a doubt! But I also believe that we have to do our part too. You can't keep praying for a spouse, and then become a hermit and never put yourself out there lol:) Even online dating can be exhausting, and believe me I have put some time in!

Just wondering what other venues or choices there are. I did the church-hopping thing when I was in college, and met a lot of great people that way. But I really love my church now, but where are all the great single Christian men?

...Sigh...