I am an intelligent, loving, and caring woman. My faith is really important to me, and I'm a Christian who loves the Lord. I feel like I don't have a problem meeting men;I'm really outgoing, charming, and personable. But I do have a hard time meeting the right men, Christian men. There are no single guys at my church, unless you're looking for one in their 20's/30's. Or maybe there are single men my age at church, but I will probably never know it. For the past several years I feel like the church has really been missing a huge demographic of singles in their late 30's to late 40's, and up. I hear so many women and men around this age group saying, "There are no single women/men at my church!" And clearly they are everywhere, but there is a lack of ministries for them where they can get together and fellowship with one another. This has been frustrating to say the least, and I wonder if there are others who feel the same, or if anyone knows of some great thriving christian singles groups in the Seattle area?

I just keep thinking it shouldn't be this hard. I'm fun-loving, attractive, driven, have a compassionate heart for people, funny, loyal, and ready to share my life with someone. I really like where I am now, and I knew I didn't want to get married until I was in my 40's. Yes, I believe God has someone wonderful me!! Beyond a doubt! But I also believe that we have to do our part too. You can't keep praying for a spouse, and then become a hermit and never put yourself out there lol:) Even online dating can be exhausting, and believe me I have put some time in!

Just wondering what other venues or choices there are. I did the church-hopping thing when I was in college, and met a lot of great people that way. But I really love my church now, but where are all the great single Christian men?

...Sigh...

Answer: I am in Oklahoma.

Anyway, welcome to the site.

Jeeeeezzzzzz

Twintidbits24, do you have something against Oklahoma?

Oh, your serious, let laugh harder! HAA HAA HAA - Bender "Bending" Rodriguez.

Welcome Latinajoy. Have you considered starting a 30/40/50 group yourself? Talk to your pastor about it and keep safe.

The only great guy you will meet in church is the Lord himself

great answer..


welcome to the site

I've never been away

My account locked again, I'm not even that religious but I wish Jesus worked for Mingle so he could sort my account out

Not you silly man...

The OP.. she is new...

Oh, now I'm blushing from my own stupidity.

I still wish Jesus worked for Mingle though

Hello bricky Yup, If you receive that much mail/locked Again also
* welcome Church Dating is not a good combination for some people.
** Deleted Account ! Perfect for you! As online dating is not !

Hello Doug, I thought I'd mention my account locking problem in the religious threads and hope the Lord has mercy on my soul, and my account.

** Mine is ? "Congratulations! We have cleared you as a spammer."

Ummm ok! I'm a spammer
* Mingle2 services at 9am. every Sunday

^^^^^ even if we aren't spammers can we come and learn???