Well, if you were to move to the USA, then perhaps I could make you forget about him.

You are a very, very pretty Chinawoman. Don't run after him; there are a billion other Chinese guys who would be ecstatic to date you.

I never could understand why women who are exceedingly and exceptionally pretty have so much to complain about when it comes to relationships. All the guys want you; why do you pick someone who is not suitable? Pick someone who is.

This is not rocket science, lady. You are pretty; 99 percent of the men want you. If you were the opposite, only 1 percent of men would want you. So you have all these men to choose from, you are at the top of the game, and you still can't make a play that will land you a winner? You are not handicapped in the race, you are a favourite. Why complain then? It's not that you can't. It's not that you don't have the opportunity. Nature gave you the best opportunity it ever could have. Use it, do take advantage -- proper advanantage -- of your good situation, please!! Don't waste you life on losers who don't make you happy or are deceiving you.

Stay with a Chinese man, not with Aryans -- Aryans are a bunch of haughty stuck-up bstrds. To experience true respect, love, and adoration, from a man, pick an African, or an Asian -- south or east, no difference. Just stay away from the crazy white man.

Oh, I made a mistake - some of the south asians are white, inasmuch as they are Aryans or Caucasians. Such as Indians, pakistanis, the afgh, arabs and Jews. But you still have half the world to choose from, chinese, japanese, pilipino, malaysian, australoids, papua-new guineans, africans, which count at least fifty major langauage and distinct nationality groups.

So choose wisely. Don't fritter your love away on unswordsy white trash. If he was white. Was he?

Yeah, huck. I did not even think. I assumed he was white. Was he? Now I feel I've made a fool of myself. Please tell me he was white.

I would take that as a confession that he's cheating. He's obviously doing something he knows he shouldn't, or that you would not appreciate. I would leave. But, I have absolutely zero tolerance for games, lies, and other nonsense.

So, I would say, trust your gut. You know better than anyone. If you feel he's cheating, he most likely is.

Keep in mind that the heart is foolish, it's not always wise to follow it. Sometimes we have to trust our gut and admit that if somethings doesn't seem right, it isn't.