darinlee


darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 08:21 AM Topic: what do you think?
All the questions going through your mind will never be answered so you need to let go of them. And her. what should i do when shes putting herself right in my face?i mean she done me wrong and now shes coming around fishing. i am so confused. does she want to use me some more or is she really sorry? this makes no sense to me but i cant be used anymore,thats for sure!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 08:18 AM Topic: what do you think?
your so right .thank you!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 08:00 AM Topic: what do you think?
well,not for the whole 3 years.i always gave her the benefit of the doubt because maybe she just wasnt the affectionate type or maybe its her bi-polar condition,or maybe its the meds,or maybe its this or that....point is,i was most definately used.thats obvious now,and she always wanted more.nothing was ever good enough,but thanks anyway for your input.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 07:12 AM Topic: what do you think?
I've only got one piece of advice, I got it a couple of weeks ago when my last girlfriend broke up with me. "B1tches Be Crazy and there's no way to predict them." Who knows what's going on in her head. I can tell you this much, it is no longer your concern. If she wants to talk to your folks, let her, just let them know that you don't want them to give her any information about you. Drop her like a bad habit, and don't ever look back. yeah,i hear ya.the hell with ! your probably right!she knows what she is doing. i know her like a book,just not sure what to do about it.thanks!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 07:03 AM Topic: what do you think?
There is not much to say that the woman was a gold digger and most people don't think seriously about picking up a mate in a bar. You put yourself out there to get hurt by practically waving your money around. Don't think that because you did that much for a woman that she is supposed to reciprocate with affection, love, and honesty. You *bought* her. Next time, don't be so quick to dazzle a woman with gifts as ways of proving anything to her. First, find out if there is chemistry that isn't bought and paid for with your cash. Second, see what *she is bringing to the table.* i wasnt literelly flashing money around,but she knew i had it because she knew what i did for a living.in this area where i live,if your a towboater then you are considered lucky.its a prime job here where i live.women automatically associate that with money around here,so its hard to tell when your a towboater what a woman is really after.a lot of towboaters get messed around,i see it all the time.its too bad but i guess its part of the life of working on the water.and in the beginning she did show chemistry,but of course that was just a ploy,but i thought she really did love me and i really truly loved her.....very much!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 10:49 PM Topic: what do you think?
And quit throwing your money around. Dang. I don't get that with people. What's the whole brag thing about money. I'd try and get in touch with a lawyer, do you have the receipts and stuff? Does anything fall under common-law marriage? i dont brag about money.she seen that i had alot.but i was sitting alone way on the other end of the bar,minding my own business.she and her friends came down where i was and the more we talked,she seen how i was spending money and she knew what i did for a living through our conversation. i have never been a braggert!in fact.for your information,i am really humble,so i dont appreciate the assumption! assumption is the mother of all f--ck ups silly rabbit.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 10:49 PM Topic: what do you think?
And quit throwing your money around. Dang. I don't get that with people. What's the whole brag thing about money. I'd try and get in touch with a lawyer, do you have the receipts and stuff? Does anything fall under common-law marriage? i dont brag about money.she seen that i had alot.but i was sitting alone way on the other end of the bar,minding my own business.she and her friends came down where i was and the more we talked,she seen how i was spending money and she knew what i did for a living through our conversation. i have never been a braggert!in fact.for your information,i am really humble,so i dont appreciate the assumption! assumption is the mother of all f--ck ups silly rabbit.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 10:07 PM Topic: what do you think?
Contact a lawyer and see if you can get some equity(money) out of the house. Then get back on the river and leave this all behind. Good Luck i wish i could.i mean its her house,but i payed alot of money to get it into the state its in now...its very nice.i even had the cieling textured with glitter in the texture mix...even the stoppers in her brand new beautiful sink costed me nearly 75 dollers a piece[no ****]. i spared no expense because i figured we would always be togather.i mean we had alot of bad times and that never split us up so i figured we would always be together.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 10:06 PM Topic: what do you think?
Contact a lawyer and see if you can get some equity(money) out of the house. Then get back on the river and leave this all behind. Good Luck i wish i could.i mean its her house,but i payed alot of money to get it into the state its in now...its very nice.i even had the cieling textured with glitter in the texture mix...even the stoppers in her brand new beautiful sink costed me nearly 75 dollers a piece[no ****].

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 09:14 PM Topic: Am I attractive??
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? i checked your pics out on your profile and your very attractive. i may actually be moving down in your are if you want a good friend

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 09:05 PM Topic: what do you think?
Here is how I see it. I'm thinking she was simply looking to find out where you were. Maybe her current relationship went sour and she wanted you to fall back on. I mean you took her shat for 3 years and she took every advantage of you... she had no problems taking your money, had her space to do what she wanted for a month with your money while you were out working, helped you use instead of helping you to stop, wasn't affectionate and to top it off you spent thousands on a house that's her's...so heck yeah she's gonna come back looking for ya..I could be wrong but when you get back on your feet and things are looking up again for ya that's when you just might see her at your doorstep...my advice...be strong, don't answer the door, she had her chance and blew it...you deserve better. and try not to overthink things with her...take it as a life lesson, don't give her the power to stress you out...you're better then that. just relax..better theing are to come. So true!! The day that you turn her away will be a new beginning for you. It's like a de-programming. You will feel so empowered and in control of yourself it will be amazing. You're strong, I can sense it, and you can do this. thank you so much.your all very kind.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:54 PM Topic: what do you think?
Ummm.....do you guys have defacto property laws over there? I suspect that this is more than guy/girl break up... Three years.... and three years proof of financial support, and three years of renovations to her property.... If I may be so bold, seek legal advice... I suspect you have a right to a share of her property if your defacto laws are similar to ours... Thank You Very Much.greatly appreciated!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:45 PM Topic: what do you think?
Here is how I see it. I'm thinking she was simply looking to find out where you were. Maybe her current relationship went sour and she wanted you to fall back on. I mean you took her shat for 3 years and she took every advantage of you... she had no problems taking your money, had her space to do what she wanted for a month with your money while you were out working, helped you use instead of helping you to stop, wasn't affectionate and to top it off you spent thousands on a house that's her's...so heck yeah she's gonna come back looking for ya..I could be wrong but when you get back on your feet and things are looking up again for ya that's when you just might see her at your doorstep...my advice...be strong, don't answer the door, she had her chance and blew it...you deserve better. and try not to overthink things with her...take it as a life lesson, don't give her the power to stress you out...you're better then that. just relax..better theing are to come. thanks so much. i love a womans opinion on such matters.your sweet.thanks!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:43 PM Topic: what do you think?
Lives short, Start living it. thanks brother....yall have been great and i know deep down yall are right.thanks!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:22 PM Topic: what do you think?
well, you can't do anything about what's behind you you can only change what's before you your right, thank you.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:21 PM Topic: what do you think?
Well, I know this is difficult for you, but based on what you said here, nothing good can come of you being anywhere near her. Cut your losses. Stay away...forget her. Focus on something else...and never, never flash money in a bar or anywhere else. Nothing good can come of that either. Good luck my friend. It's time you started looking out for yourself. its hard because i really loved her,and maybe its because i have so much invested,but deep down i know your right. thank you so much for the strength in your words.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:09 PM Topic: what do you think?
Do you own this house you put all this money into or does she? i hate to say it but she did.we was suppose to change that but it never happened .she wanted me to marry her first and i probablt would have.i know,i should have known better.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:07 PM Topic: what do you think?
the longer you're away the better you'll be able to see distance gives you vision yeah ive discovered a lot about the situation after being gone.we have been split up since july 1st and i have had a lot of enlightenment since then.thanks.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:04 PM Topic: what do you think?
You know stuff like this is never easy to filter through. Thing is it seems like you knew this was coming a long time ago. You are gone and you need to stay gone. Once she chose to be with another man that should be the end of your relationship. She can regret it all she wants, but with some other guy. You are an awesome dude for having put up with all that. If you went to treatment then you should realize the damage this girl can do to you if you get back. Go back to treatment if you need to, but don't go back to her. Good luck bro. You'll be in my prayers. thanks brother,i appreciate that very much and thanks for the prayers.so far,the stuff isnt an option in my life now.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 08:02 PM Topic: what do you think?
First off you need to make paragraphs so that this can be an easier read. It was a real chore slogging through it. Anyway, what difference does it make what she wanted? You are much better off without her in your life. Now perhaps you can work on fixing your issues like "weed and other things..." sorry im usually pretty good about writng. i was trying to hurry up with the post.and thanks bro!

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