I sure will put that into consideration

Thanks my friend, even for your opinion

Thanks buddy, makes two of us

LOVE THEM ANYWAY
Loving someone who can never love you back can be unbearable,
The damages it does to your heart overwhelming and irreparable,
Yet it draws such compassion from the depths of your soul,
Something so deep and true over which you have no control.
It doesn’t matter how many times you’re lied to,
How many times they’re untrue and leave you feeling blue
Or how many nights you spend awake consoling them,
You love them with all their flaws, you never condemn,
It doesn’t matter even when so much doubt fills your heart,
You still love them through it anyway.

When you choose to love someone who’s struggling for their life,
Too burdened by the weight of their own pain and strife,
When you commit yourself to bear someone’s hurts and agony,
When you choose to walk with them in their moments of fear and apathy
When you can love them even when their darkest moment in life comes,
You discover how deep your capacity for empathy and kindness runs.
Dedicating yourself to someone who cannot give you the same dedication back,
Is a risk we all fear to take ; like trending down a blind fearful track.
Caring for others with all their flaws and weaknesses is not easy,
But you still love them through it anyway.

Be with them ‘cause you care, love and feel they’re worthy and deserving,
Not because you pity them, feel obligated to, or ‘cause it’s gratifying.
Give enough weight to your every “I’m here for you”,
Be there for them, walk with them, carry them if you have to.
Everyone needs someone, but there’s someone who needs you specifically,
In whatever way, be it physically, spiritually or emotionally,
There’s always someone who needs you more than you need him or her,
Someone going through grief, a heartbreak, illness or just seeing their life in a blur,
They may be incapable of giving us a relationship equivalent to that which we give them,
Just learn to love them unconditionally: LOVE THEM ANYWAY.
© QUINNS

if you bump into mine, refer him to this site

you remind me of my childhood, .......and yet,,here we are

But still, the strong one's bring you up real good, even better than you'd have been with your old man around

I think I know that feeling Bahitieva

I wrote this some time back, thinking about my mother and what she had to go through. she was young when she got pg with me. am a man n I can't get close to imagining what it's like to bring up a child on your own after the dad dumps you,,, I can only imagine....n I put it into words.
God Bless all Single moms here and out there.


Here I am again, trying to put into words the mind of a young mother,
Could be you, your friend, your sister or your mother raising a child without its father.
Probably sitted out there on a couch or in a coffee plantation with a kid strapped to her back,
Maybe lacking nothing….physically, or wasting to bits that the child may not lack,
Wishing she could take everything back to where it started,
To right her wrongs….to unwalk the path she walked…….uncharted.
To free herself of his chains and the pain birthed by his feign,
To have just one more chance to make that decision again,
A chance to make things right, to stand her ground for once, a chance to choose her own path,
To fight for what she believes in till what her heart set out for hath.
Not to be here wishing that the child never grows up to make the same mistakes.
That it never has to go through such heart breaks, such pains and aches.
How could she have been so blinded by love? Were there no clues or did she just ignore them?
Closed off to reality and willingly chose his fantasies over her dreams….lost her right to condemn.
When the child grows up and asks about him, will she have the courage to tell the truth?
If she had to do it again, what would she do different?
Would she make better choices with as much commitment?
What about him, does he ever think about it? The words he said that night?
Was any of them true? Did he walk away just for spite?
The look he wore when he cuddled her to his chest,
That moment of bliss when love seemed at its best
The promises he made…… did any of it ever mean anything to him?
Was any part of their time together real?....What drove his whim?
Does he ever miss her…them, or did he just move on?
Forgot about them and just like that……gone.

©Quinns.

Rate my profile picture.... honestly

Thanks Tmommy
That's encouraging,,,,,, now I know it's possible,,,,,

Thanks everyone for the positive comments

yeah, especially when am in the mood....

thanks Tessa

I don’t know what tomorrow holds,
But I know when it comes, it shall find me still loving you.
I could buy you a rose, but the petals one after the other fades and folds,
But I know the love I feel for you is real, unfading and true.

I don’t know how your life was before we met,
But I know my love for you is the first child of my hearts deepest feelings.
Should we ever grow apart, you’ve shown me a love I could never forget,
Strong enough that I know I’d last a hundred lifetimes on the leavings.

I don’t know what you see when you look into my eyes,
But I see in yours an ocean of love I couldn’t resist drowning myself into.
When we hold hands, I feel assured that I can trust you with my lows and highs,
And I know I can lean on you and you’ll pull me through when I’m feeling blue.

I don’t know if I make you as happy as I would want,
But I know I’d never ask heaven for more from one soul than I get from thee,
We’ll have our fights, we’ll disagree, but to abandon you, that I shan’t,
I’m sealed for you , I give myself to love you alone and for the rest of my life so shall it be.

I don’t know what half of your expectations for me are,
But I do know that I never expect you to be perfect, and even so, I’ll never love you any less.
Even with all your faults and imperfections, you are incredible, and the world’s greatest by far
And for every I DON’T, there’ll always be enough I DO’s to carry us through any mess.

©Quinns

well, am no Shakespeare, but I do love writing when am in the mood.

Talking about fears.......; am not sure about it. One of my boys kinda got lost on their way home down the valley.......though ,when the 'season' is right, fruits do fall from the tree normally.....just never had the guts to check if they have 'seeds' inside.

Is there any point in dating if you can't or doubt if you can make kids?

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