Hi xxxtobyxxx,this is my first time here but I'd like to share,yeah,i've been there before where i had a big crush on this person, but we never get past the online relationship, just chat rooms, there's closeness alright but like i said, we're just doing it online. I often try to convince that person to meet me face to face like a date or just hanging out but it ended up that person giving me excuses,that lead to misunderstanding and i had to gave up on that.So i look up on the web, that out in this world there are people who actually enjoy just online relationship, to answer your question whether they are insecure when you try to get close to them, yes they do,just to let you know,that you are not in the wrong,that you didn't coming on to them too close or too fast,just you and them don't agree on a same page. There are people out there who's doing online relationship with the same aim as you to have a genuine relationship with others, not all is bad but you gotta keep trying to find them.