The ten things i look for in a women
The first five are probably on everyones list
1. Honesty
2. good Communication skills
3. optamism
4. a sence of humor
5. a sence of adventure

The next five are what i consider very important seconds. If a women is
super attractive and these don't happen then I don't consider it a
successful relationship:
1. That extra second of eye contact you make with someone when you
truely get who they are. Sometimes it takes a few hours and sometimes
it takes a few minutes..
2. The accidental touch that sends energy through your whole body like
the first time you kissed a girl as a kid. It could be a touch of two
feet at dinner or a brush of two shoulders in a store..
3. the second you first smell a women and all you want to do is nustle
your nose into her neck and feel her breath on your shoulder.
4. The second that you relize you need something wether it be a napkin
at dinner, a smile in the rain or some soup when your sick and she has
already got it for you. Some how she new exactly what you needed.
5. The second you picture you and her on a boat on the intercoastal
holding hands on you 60th birthday!!!

This is my first day of "online dating" so I have not been on a date
yet. I try to be honest with my self every day. With that in mind i
have been fooled many times in my life in the flesh and blood. How many
times have you met someone in a bar and spoke to them and an hour later
or a week or a year they turn out to be totally different then what you
thought they would be.. Sometimes better sometimes worse... The
expectation you had that first second in a bar is your perception of
someone. I guess the same goes for online dating? Perceptions change
as do people i just hope that no matter who I meet the relationship
will start and/or end with a smile. I have met thousands of people in
my life and 98% have had something good to offer me. Maybe thats my
nieve view of the world, but at least no one can acuse me of being a
pesamist......