Well my first post stated that I may crazy and maybe I am. As far as what you call this it would be nice to find it for awhile......Goodnight and may we all find what we are looking for what ever that me be..


To the ladies Have a good night

Brother one never knows unless one ask and tries. So far no women have been able to follow the rules and they keep getting to attached way too quick and acting like they need me. I don't want to be needed I want to be wanted.

We want two different things. I don't want the pressure of some women "won't be able to survive without mE. I need a women that can be healthy enough to take care of herself and I am bonus and not a necessity. That is what I keep running into and I find it completely annoying. No disrespect meant.

Of course clothes would come off....I am a guy cuddling involves sex and lots of it.....Unless she just needs to be held....

Thanks.......



See a A booty call as condition's of disrespect. Some guy or girl who is drunk and just failed at bar and as a last ditch effort come knocking on your door after bar time looking to get laid.

A cuddle buddies would know when they are going to get together, it would be done sober unless you two got drunk together. Cuddle Buddies have conditions of respect and even caring. But the next day their life is their life without interference form anybody.

I have not found that in anyway but that may say more about me than any women I have been with.

A booty call is just sex. A cuddle buddy is someone you are safe with, you are exclusively sexually involved with and you hold each other and meet more emotional needs than just sexual ones......Big difference between a Booty call and a cuddle buddy.

That would be way cool but I have not found that or anything close.


i guess I want my cake and eat it too. However this is beneficial for both parties as she does not have to answer to a man. She lives her day life with out interference and has someone there at night....

I have a great life but every time I try a relationship they inject themselves to far, too deep and too quick into my life.

Again the difference between a cuddle buddy and booty call is a booty call really don't work for me. A cuddle buddy you care about, your exclusive with and you even like...You spend time getting to know each other first but you don't let them into you day life.

I think something might pop up right before the cuddle

I have come to the conclusion I am not wanting a deep, meaningful long term relationship what I want is a cuddle buddy and not a booty call.

I am the kind of guy that likes/needs to have feelings for the girl I am sleeping with and having sexual relationship with, hence negating a booty call.

See I like being signal but when it comes to bed time it sucks.

A cuddle buddy is some you care about, be exclusive with but they are just there at night.

Day time lives don't really intertwine. I don't care what she does for a living, how many hours she works, how much money she has, how much she travels or to meet your kids and I don't want her meeting mine.

I don't want anybody tell me how to live my life, judging me, inflecting her insecurities on me or trying to be my mom.

Cuddle buddy is someone you respect, know and feel safe with and if you are lucky maybe even like.

A booty call has none of these qualites...

So Am I crazy, I am in some illusion and just fooling myself or is this a possibility?

always have been unless it was the other half......

I have found and met and been with a couple of ladies from here more importantly what I have found is I am not ready for a long term deep relationship.

and I am ok with that.......

Office Space, where our hero ends up doing what he wants in the end........

Its only 11 Am and the Nyquil is starting to kick in .....YAY Me




And yes I have a cold.........

Indeed....& I think it must be a test to see if it is possible to install a car stereo and rip it off at the same time!

HOLY CARLOS KAWAGUCHI!

Thumbs ****ing up.
I've only lol'd that hard to like 3 or 4 things ever!
and that was up there with it.
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Makes you wonder if ninjas have to do the Pepsi/Three Stooges in silence test?


Beach
who are the two ladies and can I have one.....I have this cool sombrero that I stool for the nijas and at a Mexican donkey show. Ill trade and the ladies will love me so they will be all ok with this......you know what I mean

I have never been evolved in it at all........YAY ME..

I just found my Nyquil does that count?


this cold kicks in at night? I feel great all day and at night it comes back? What is that about.


But the trust Nyquil will kick its azz and I will sleep well....

Thats funny never considered rather I like it or don't, it is what I am. I do take my quiet time during my meditation but other than that, that is just who I am. At work I have a position that I have to handle many things at one time and love it. I have had jobs doing 1 thing at a time and it drives my crazy and makes me very unhappy.

I don't need power have plenty of that but I do make myself slow down quite my mind and hold still for thirty minutes everyday that is were i need power as that has been a challenge to me slowing down but I do see it as a necessity.

my mind just works better for me

If i am not doing 5 things at a time I feel like I am missing something...



Right now I am watching 2 1/2 men, playing a game on line, talking to you, doing laundry, cleaning the kitchen, talking to this girl on the text and IMing another girl who is a friend and plying with my cat who is being very needy right now......


And all this right now


Oh yeah listing to music aswell......

well it was just a bad time to stop drinking tequila I guess......