So you agree with me that the measurement of time is what defines it and that the measurement of time is relative to the system you are basing it on. Our solar system comes with it's own rules, doesn't mean the rules are the same elsewhere.

And where do you put a tecyractacube on your multi axial depiction of dimensions? And how would anyone know if they exist? Is the world within a mirror another dimension? I think not. But some would argue.

I propose that if you put two points on a line you have harnessed time because time becomes perceptible when there are two realities coexisting. Every object is a spark in time.

actually it's relativity is only in our conception of measurement. I don't believe it is variable, it only appears so because of our perceptual bias. It is an immovable backdrop that doesn't interract. but there are other time systems, not that time itself is different, but it's measurement is based on astronomy which is relative to whatever system you are in.

We don't have the vocabulary to describe its nature, especially since its nature is relative to what you are measuring. We use time as a constant on earth because it's measurement is consistant in our solar system. Scientifically speaking we could consider defining minutes in "earth time." Outside of our solar system, time is a variable relative to whatever exists. On earth, the existence of any object is a measure of time and the duration of an atomic or wave particle composition in the form of a person, a book, a piece of music or an image of light.

Time is the space between events. It is the largest of all the dimensions. It is the backdrop which allows existance to be perceived. It is real, it does exist, it's relativity doesn't diminish it's reality.

that's my favorite place to meet! It's short, non-committal, casual and easy to leave if it's a drag. Also it is less expensive which lowers the pressure all the way around.

I would not accept this custody/visitation arrangement because it would deprive me of weekends with my children. Every other weekend would be more reasonable. She can gradually reclaim some kid time on the weekends by making a special plan for a Saturday to take them somewhere like the beach or something and then "clearing it" with him, getting him to let go a little bit. What is her specific complaint? She should talk to a counselor and figure out what it is exactly that she wants. She sounds vaguely resistant but not focused. Better to get the calls and be kept up to date than to have a secretive ex who communicates nothing. He will eventually tire of checking in. Especially if she stops answering her phone and he is forced to leave messages. That becomes silly. Is there a trust issue here? Does she drink alot or do drugs? Is he afraid to leave the kids with her for some reason? He may also be using them as a shield against developing his own independent social life, which is actually none of her business. If it is not hurting her kids and she doesn't have a specific problem with it, she should just carry on her life.

Hi and Welcome! I am pretty new here too and I didn't realize it would be so fun. There are some cool people hanging out here. Good luck!

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