I have never understood head games. I am a straight forward , honest woman. With a good heart. I met a fellow on line. We had seen each other almost everyday for the past 2 months. I was in heaven. The first month,I was cautious abit, having been burned so many times before. I had told this guy this as well. His words and his actions proved themselves over and over again. He was so happy and so was I.

We introduced our children to one another. They got along. Things were moving in such a good direction. I have never been happier. I let those walls around me down. My friends seen how we were together, his friends seen. They could see the happiness. The two weeks, leading up to him out of the blue breaking up with me, were fabulous. The week before was amazing. The sunday before, I met his parents. I had already met his ex-wife and her fiance. I casually suggested that fathers day after meeting his parents, that we meet mine. He was cool with that. That went all good. I would go the next day to his hockey game. Greeted with a big wave and smile. Big hug and kiss when he was done. He introduced me to all his hockey friends. Hugs, and kisses, and holding my hands.

Brought the kids all over mid week, and hugs and kisses....Thursday..in his arms...kissy kiss.....Friday morning I was bringing my tire over for him to change. He told me to come on over...Get out of the truck..kissy kiss, big long hug..as per normal....He starts to change the tire. I ask him whats happening in a causal way...Well he needs to talk to me..I ask if its the kids, oh no they're great. Is it another woman? oh no, hes gonna be alone. Its not me, its him, he did soul searching.....I am so great, he really likes me, still wants to be my friend..blah, blah.....can I make you something to eat? What the hell? Ahh, no not really...

Anyway, I am there till around noon. Heart broken and confused. I wait till Monday, and call him, I go and see him. I am in a daze, like why? He tells me he realized this a month ago.????? Like what the hell???? Anyway, we are going to be friends. Which was very hard for me to even decide to do.....Hg, hug, he even gave me TEARS.....

Two weeks later, I go to the club hes playing at to show support to my friend....I also had a birthday gift for him..beautiful pictures of his daughters I had taken....

Well, was I surprised...There was another woman..He seen me there, He was a few feet away from me actually, when he kissed her infront of me. Nice...

So I confronted this woman.. I just wanted to know how long they had been seeing one another? She starts swearing at me...None of your f-ing business? Why the F-ing are you here? I guess that answers my question. Anyway, I chatted to his friend outside, and he said this is not the normal behaviour of this guy. Hes the relationship man. He just told me two weeks ago how you two were getting alone so well and that he really likes you...You both want the same things....He was confused as well....He suggested that we talk later in the week about it. I never made a scene at the bar, I was pretty stunned about it all.

A few days later, my daughter texted him, and he calls me,thinking it was me...I said sorry it wasn't. He tears into me about my behavior that night, and how I embarrassed him infront of his band (they suck by the way), and his two friends, and his new relationship????? I had no idea of this new relationship?????If I had, I would never of went there......

He says I crossed these boundries of friendship, and he doesn't want those qualities in a friend. So he doesn't want me to text him, email him, or call him ever again....??????

HIs friend said that the day he broke up with me, he had invited me and him to his birthday party and at midnight, he shows up with this chick.. Hes just as confused. Shes this 38, acts likes shes a high school band groupie..and shes married. Separated for 2 weeks....

My question is how can someone treat you so wonderful, and then hate you? My intentions for going there were so innocent and man it took alot to just go there and accept him as a friend. Was I out of line? In the last month, I had gotten all this affection..your my heaven was one of his texts,the previous week? Did he get scared of everything being so wonderful, that he ran.?? Or is that an excuse for him? Is that alittle harsh, suddenly hating me like that? Is that his guilt for treating me like crap? And maybe hes the one thats embarrassed of his actions?

Just wanting an opinion on these games people play.....(Oh and she tells the guy who broke up with mes date, that she better watch out for him...) She's saying things about people she doesn't even know....