I'm gonna take an alternate perspective to everyone else.

Allow me to start by saying that in relationships we as people can only focus on ourselves and what we do for others. Some people are simply placed on this earth to affect and bless those who may be disfortuned or inopprotuned. In our nature, we only hope to find that "match" that is not necessarily perfect, but meets the perfection of your purpose here on earth. Many people find their soul mates and keep them. Marry them, have beautiful kids, and live in the life of luxury in terms of love. However, some simply find those that may not perfectly match everything that they are about, yet their 50% equals the other's 50% and once you put them together, it equals a 100% of a heavenly blessed relationship. Thus, regardless of who enters and leaves our lives, we cannot be dependant on our relationships with those people, but moreso our relationship with a supernatural force that leads us to help those who need and eventually meet the one which He has planned for us. There is really no explanation for his actions in social sense, because no one can read his mind but the guy you were dating. So I encourage you to focus on you and your family, continue to be there for him in ways that you can handle. And eventually you will be blessed. All good deeds, reaps benefits... I have no doubt that in time understanding will be brought to you

Good luck

Oh how I wish,
That love's eternity exist,
From the depths of my soul, I'm pissed
Because love once shared is missed
Leaving a heart crumbled inside,
And tears I can no longer hide,
And the world wonders why,
I disrespect the woman's humble cry,
Its not that all men are pigs,
Searching for grout to conquer and dis,
But simply love is amist,
Leaving us to ponder on the
what whens and whys.
So internally we cry,
While our tears seep externally in the form of actions,
Undevoted to passion
Because of what used to be,
Has torn us into an unforeseen terminal existence,
It's a depiction of love's true existence,
Undisplayed leaving us quite dismayed,
At the heart of her heart,
We see her fire, but no spark,
The olympic handle with no torch,
Anxiously awaiting a beginning with no idea of where to start.
So I ask is it truly our fault?
That in our minds we are blind,
That when we approach her sexually explicitely,
We are far too unkind,
Unhumane, highly disdained,
That you take away our only chance,
To see love,
To feel love,
To love love,
Just once again.

I think not...
Which leaves me to say,
We understand love, but love does not love us...:(