Many reasons create issues to be addressed , some people are not socially sophisticated and can hide behind a screen and pretend they are as they present, others are here to scam, some to get attention of many with no intent to meet, some enjoy leading others on for their own amusement at the expense of the other person, its a way to avoid boredom, chance to experiment with others safely as some aren't as they present ( met women with other womens photos, some with slim photos and when we met they were over 225 SAD, hide behind euphemisms like a little extra, curvy to distort the obvious truth of morbid obesity, and others here to actually meet . Motivations are varied and peoples personal issues often cloud their judgment so its a good idea to require several photos, lots of narrative to give an accurate presentation ( watch for ask me? the epitome of laziness and failure to share with others, foolishly not offering any photos and then expecting others to ask - rude not to be on the same page with those who already did post a variety of photos and not just head shots, skip photos of landscapes, relatives, animals cartoons, all are not appropriate here but can be shared later when appropriate.) The fair generalization is the higher the standard of whom you seek the more likely many others will also be competing as I have seen some women get 700 meets in a day... imagine trying to screen such a large number and no its not necessary or right to answer others as no response is thank you and its not right for men or women to complain that others do not respond as its their choice just as each is permitted to screen as they wish too - here maturity is required as facing perceived rejection is demanded and some cannot accept that not all seek the same as someone else... If a person is consistently having issues with members I would suggest talking to someone who can help identify the issues resulting in so much negative responses. The idea that you can readily find someone is more wishful thinking as its random after all for two to find the other appropriate but easy for a one sided attraction regardless of age, sex, income, education, location, ability to write, honest photos and reciprocity..