Okay, just a bit of perspective here. This is no different from dating in the "real" world. You will deal with the no goods, the flakes, the liars, etc... And then you will deal with the regular folks. When I first came on here I was gunho that this was going to be my fix all but when I started to talking to men I found I really wasn't as ready for a relationship as I had thought I was so the relationships I developed fell to the way side. Most of them actually got disappointed and frustrated or just plain pissed at me. I did not realize that I was not ready so I was not being intentionally hurtful. It is just a part of the human condition that we sometimes don't know what we are doing.

So just take your time. Enjoy yourself and if she is here she will show up for you one day.

Good luck.


Makes perfect sense
I'm not angry at them, getting too old to spend my time being angry. Hell i'm not really ready for a relationship just yet anyway. Just thought since so many people were into this it MUST be diffrent but your right people are the same on or offline.
Thanks

Ahh yes, a very wise choice sir.

Some good advice. Not in hurry for anything just checking it all out. At least the boards cool. Think i'll just go back to the old fashioned way and keep checkin out yawl's fine work. It's insanity in here.

Hello All,

Unfortunately I recently parted ways with my fiance so i thought id give online dating thing a try, seemed easy enough, WRONG. I have now had what i thought were decent chats going with four diffrent women who all just suddenly stopped emailing, one even asked for my number after about three weeks so i gave it to her that was the last i heard from her, she even went so far as to pull profile, ouch. These are just basic getting to know you chats. Is this commen ? Any advice out there ?

Thanks
John