Good advice Mike.

After 2 years there really isn't a thing you can do but let time take
over. Mike is right though, distract yourself. Keep busy and never let
yourself just sit down and think about him and how much you miss him.

I personaly like to date as much as possible. It is easier for me to get
a date then because I know, and I project, that I do not want sex or any
kind of serious thing. Just someone to go to the movies or to dinner
with. I find that by doing that you get a new friend, possibly a good
one, as well as a chance to get a fresh perspective on things. For me it
is the feeling of lonelyness that gets me to the point where I'm ready
to call the ex. That is why I don't memorize phone numbers or e-mail
addresses or anything like that for my girl friend.

After 4 months though, you gotta let go and move on. Easier said than
done. Just remember this isn't the end of love for you and you've got a
lot more life ahead of you. Do you want to spend it with a jerk? I
personally think you deserve to be happy even if it means being sad for
a little bit.

My best defense against heart break are my dogs. Pets in general help a
lot.

Good luck boo. Keep you're head up and you're heart open.