im having trouble getting over an ex, i know we have all been throught
this. i was with a guy for 2 years and we have been broken up for about
4 months. we did the whole hook up once in a while game. he would get
back together with me if i wanted to but i know that hes a jerk. i was
looking for some good advice...

Find something to do that will force your mind into a routine. Take up
some bullsh1t class at a local "adult education" class, join a gym -
something/anything that will give your mind a chance to forget.

It helped me immensly.

Good advice Mike.

After 2 years there really isn't a thing you can do but let time take
over. Mike is right though, distract yourself. Keep busy and never let
yourself just sit down and think about him and how much you miss him.

I personaly like to date as much as possible. It is easier for me to get
a date then because I know, and I project, that I do not want sex or any
kind of serious thing. Just someone to go to the movies or to dinner
with. I find that by doing that you get a new friend, possibly a good
one, as well as a chance to get a fresh perspective on things. For me it
is the feeling of lonelyness that gets me to the point where I'm ready
to call the ex. That is why I don't memorize phone numbers or e-mail
addresses or anything like that for my girl friend.

After 4 months though, you gotta let go and move on. Easier said than
done. Just remember this isn't the end of love for you and you've got a
lot more life ahead of you. Do you want to spend it with a jerk? I
personally think you deserve to be happy even if it means being sad for
a little bit.

My best defense against heart break are my dogs. Pets in general help a
lot.

Good luck boo. Keep you're head up and you're heart open.

Hi Sweetie.
I have been there. Just remember every time you go to your past you take
3 steps back...and have to do six good deeds forward. So why do you
choose to keep doing that?
I can guess there was "some " reason for that. You should try to
exhaust those thought s and weigh out the consequenses. Hugs

thanks guys, really good advice! your right justme1982, its just the
loneliness that gets me.

well...an ex is an ex for a reason....neva forget why you had left and
been fed up in the first place....for once you take back an ex...it is
already a sign of weakness....you will neva be able to change dat man
unless he finds it within himself to change....dont think dat maybe if i
do diz he will change or if i do dat he will be better....lets face
it....if a man really did love you...he would have found it within
himself to have already changed....people tink dey have to change for
somebody....its not dat.....people need to change to make a relationship
work....dey need to adapt to adjust to make a relationship stable and
off to a good course....i strongly urge you to stop seeing dat
guy....for hes usin you for his selfish reasons.....otherwise if he
really did love you he would be with you...and wouldnt leave you out in
da cold...only to take you back for a lil while.....if a man truly loves
you...he would respect you...if a man respects you he is patient with
you...and if a man could just shut his mouth and listen to you...maybe
then you may know he loves you....till den...keep yuh head strong...n
keep on walkin...you could just be prolongin a more intimate and
passionate relationship out dere....LOVE comes when you least expect
it...its dat certain person whom you hardly notice...until dat person is
not there....release da rope which had binded you...n dont you worry
bout lookin for love...for i say LOVE will find YOU......JAH+HEAVEN
shine upon YOU.....

A friend,
da-kiNg

your are so right islandking, thanks

Yeah what I said But with Grammar.

Get Dit? Peace//
Lay your head where you choose
Make sure Its not a ****bed Peace

whats a ****bed boomhower?

Starts w the word Sh$#. Not being mean
I know this for a fact.

Hi I'm kaylynn29. I know how you guys feel. I have been in a 4year
relaitionship also. And I'm still not over this guy. We broke up in
1999. He's living in Brandon Manitoba. I have his kid.

daz just me and da way you read it iz da way i speak....n wut?

translation please i missed ebonics class

Find a internet site like THIS one and start posting and getting to know
everyone on it and make great friends and find some that will want to
take you out for dinner or a drink and let YOUR free time become
engulfed in talking here,,,,,
Thats what I did,,,,and I left a 6 year relationship, and im still
here,,,and,,,not great but working through BREAK-UPS seems to be commom
here!!! LOL, I hope this helps you??

iam hey sweetie

If your not working already find a job,, keep yourself busy and look
into the comminuty and get involved,,, thier are lots of things to do to
keep your self busy,,, Friends and Family are great support as is your
local church if you go to church... Re Focus your energy towards new
activities that will make you happy...

LoL...Or go the easy way and find a F*ckBuddy
(the line starts behind me guys..lmao)

he prefers you wear a parka.LOL

iceprincess is right dress warm and bring something to read you
might being waiting along time sluggo

LMAO no i meant sluggo prefers YOU wear a parka