I just went through this my self and am still in alot of pain because
of it . We have been having problems for months but trying to work
through it. We both needed to change to make the relationship work but
for one reason or another niether did. Finally it was getting to the
point where we felt so much resentment toward each other, it was getting
worse instead of better. Now, if I'd had more experience with love I'd
have known better and bailed long ago but this was the first time I been
in love and didn't. All I can do is remember to treat this as a learning
experience and become a better person for it.