I too recently had my heart broken. I was married for almost 18 years and got divorced. Thats not where the broken heart comes in though. I met someone, and we were a couple for 8 months, until he told me he had been seeing someone for the entire time we were together, and he felt bad, but had to make a choice. He chose the woman he was seeing, and I am left, wondering wtf is wrong with ME. We had been talking about the future and making plans. This was like a slap in the face, as I never saw it coming. I too, am wondering how to move on and get over it. If you find out, let me know.....