Hi iani10nkm5, I so feel for you, I've just recently broken up with my lady.I decided I just needed to be strong and use tough love, only catching up about once a month just for a coffee and chat, strictly as friends. It was so tough for the first month or so but it's getting much easier now. . It may be like continuously ripping off a band-aid off a sore, keeping on being intimate with them. Perhaps it's best for you both to move on from the sex as it may only confuse the situation? I hope everything works out well for you girl.May I encourage you by saying that really moving on aids the healing process.