Shaved here, I never thought of doing a letter though. Something to
think about...........

Top for the control usually but variety is the spice of life and I like
it all :)

Well I am Sheperd which I have to say sound right now for me.

Your distinct personality, The Shepherd is to tend to your human flock.
You understand the needs of those for whom you are responsible.
Shepherds are vigilant and reliable. You realize your obligation and
commitment to the well being of those entrusted to your care. Shepherds
are very dependable. You engender a feeling of comfort and stability to
those within your charge. On the positive side, Shepherds can be
empathic, caring, understanding, practical and realistic. On the
negative side, you may be manipulative, close-minded and sentimentally
rigid. Interestingly, your preference is just as applicable in today's
corporate kingdoms.

Then I would say that they are the ones missing out and you just need to
keep looking and going on with life. Somewhere that person that sees
you for you is out there (at least I sure hope so!)

I have to agree give the stuff back and I would do the pick up the bag
from outside thing because I wouldn't want to see them. If they refuse
to pick them up then and only then would I drop the stuff off at the
local goodwill.

Having been out of the dating game for such a long time while married I
can't remember any really bad break ups. BUT my ex did leave the
marriage in a not so fun way. His "new girlfiend" my at the time "best
friend" cooked dinner for all of us (our 3 kids included) because I had
not been feeling well. And then while he was "outside" she let me know
that he was actually going to our house to get his bags he had packed
and would be living with her from then on. That was not a good way to
end a relationship!

I would have prefered the 3 texts saying I divorce you lol

I believe in it 100%. I have seen it happen and try very hard not to
end up on the wrong side of Karma.

Blessings,
Lee Ann