nahh i often see kitty katt miaww A>k>A ais69 & mingle team & many more these people are real for sure ...but unfortunately they r not lookin for somebody ..lol am i rht..??

I love everything about my face.

I agree about getting pics that bring out your best features and smile. Men are obsessed with smiling women, show them a smile and they come running for some weird reason..... You don't have to be a supermodel to get a man, obviously. I also agree about changing what you wrote in your profile, especially the use of spell check, it shows you're serious about communicating effectively and you want to come off as the intelligent person you are.

Your living situation doesn't have to be a big deal to the right person, you're still very young, plenty of young people still live at home, and even if you were 50 and living at home, it's better than being in a house with a man who abuses you, just to prove you're an adult. You don't have to put that on your profile though, since you have people who will judge you on that in our society. Maybe bring it up later after you've met a guy that you really click with, and if it turns him off, show him the door.

I hope you find what you want.

Just curious what kind of insight could you actually gives those that have lived twice as long and have dealt with twice as much in their life time as you have???

To give advice one must have insight of the problems life throws at them first.. or if falls on deaf ears.. Books do not give us the knowledge that life it's self instills within us..

But good luck on your search of the information that most of us learn as we live our lives...

Honestly.. at times we must work on ourselves before others will see us for the person we really can be...

But believe it or not I do know how you feel. I have been passed up by guys that I was interested in and to find out due to my weight.. Sure it hurts but you know if a person does not like you for who you are inside as well as outside they are doing you a favor..

I know as far as a personality I'm basically a very upbeat person. Have been told more then once that my laughter and good nature is contagious.. But yet that does not always do it for some when they are looking for another..

All I can say is take a deep look within make a list of what you feel you could change just to make you happy not others.. Once you are happy and confident with who you are, you will attract that special someone that loves you for who you are...

But........never ever settle for someone cause your lonely or feel that you are not worth someone's time and attention... This will only backfire to being abused or let down.. Be with someone that loves you and wants to be with you for who you are....