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Mon 07/06/15 09:52 AM

In this situation, I'd try to be firm with him. I'd try to know what was going on inside his mind. I'd want answers. It's one thing to never talk to him again, it's another wanting to know why he changed. Would you feel alright, knowing that you felt you could never see him again? I've seen people become bitter and estranged. It isn't a nice thing to witness. I'm just worried that not talking to him, might turn you into an estranged person. Communication can solve a lot of things. Surely it's worth a try. Nothing is definite. If you want to know why he's been like this with you though, then maybe just ask him if it's alright to talk to him about "something important".

and this is one major reason why nice guys get passed over. Because while your spending all if your energy trying to "figure him out and change him" you miss the genuine article standing in front of you. And the real scary thing is that eventually you either turn into a female version of the guy and/or you think every guy is like this.

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Mon 07/06/15 09:03 AM
I was on another dating site for over 2 years. I tried to be honest, had good pics and the whole profile. And in all that time, sending messages out trying to communicate, the only response I ever received was from an escort. Ever since I've hit puberty I've had nothing but rejection and pain, it didn't matter if I had money or was poor, the result is always the same.
I would like to believe but my experience says that only some have that "special someone". Those of us who don't, perhaps we are placeholders.

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Sun 07/05/15 06:19 AM
Lmao that is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard. My nation was fine before your people screwed everything up!