I was afraid of that -.- I feel so bad for him there has to be something that I can say or do I mean I've had similar things happen and it sucks.

Ok so I've NEVER heard of something like this. I've heard of similar situations but never one that has these details.

This person I know (for once it isn't me XD) is in a situation with a girl that he really cares for they have great chemistry and they make the world jealous when they're together. Really it is the cutest thing I've ever seen (this coming from a guy)and here comes the odd part. Despite the fact that these two seem perfect for one another and such she already has a boy friend! The relationship between her and her boy friend is long distance and the time they spend together is grand but she constantly questions if she is with the right guy. I'm friends with both of them so I want them to be together but I am really unsure of how they should handle it. I feel like I'm in middle school again with the way they act it is rather stupid. So I came here for advice since last time I got some really good stuff for myself.

A little more info....
1. She won't leave the guy she is with for him as she claims it is "tacky"
2. He won't listen to adult reasoning and move on.
3. Her boy friend is oddly supportive of his crush (I don't get it either)
4. She constantly tells my friend that she likes him and when both him and her boy friend were together with her she chose to be all over my friend more so than her boy friend.

I'm just so stumped because this seems to stupid to me. Please shine some light on what I should say to them.

at least I'm not alone T_T

XD this place will some day have more people my age from this area!

That's my age and I can't find any locals around my age that I even remotely have interest in XD

Thank you XD I'm still sort of new even if this is an older thread XD

I'd say adding at least a little bit about yourself would help you. I mean just basic things...like interests! That way people know if you're what they want. Otherwise you have a great pic and all that jazz.

I just randomize.

xD what an odd thing to say to some one...this lot sure if funny >.<

FOR THE GLORY OF THE HORDE! I mean umm New Hampshireites? XD Manchester represent!

This is why I hate old people they all act like gods because they've been around for such a long time. You're no better than any one else so save the wait around crap and don't bother me with your "if she was into you she'd have (insert crap here)" I'm just trying to figure out how to get over it with out the stupid sarcasm.

It's more or less just giving up because it has caused more problems then it is worth.

I do like anime

XD = a face

Hentai is silly and I love to dub them but I rarely watch any of it

I just got back from a convention so this is why I am all laggy

I do not blog. In fact I think that is my first legit blog post ever.

To those wanting me to abridge the entire thing I say either read it or let it go as I already did abridge it. Any way yes I told her how I felt but only in a way as to not sound so weird. more like a HEY! I have interest in you sort of sentence. As for my friend she is JUST a friend I honestly can't say that we would be anything else because she and I just don't seem to see eye to eye on anything and we fight more than we just relax.

Finally to those that gave me some real advice and not cliche remarks! THANK YOU! I may not use some of it or I may use all of it but I really mean it when I say thank you. I've had such a hard time trying to think of something to do about this whole thing. I think what I'll do is try to just sit back and watch for a while. Then see how it all works out for me. Either way I've still got my school, my health, my job, and officially a new (not literally new XD) car. So in reality the only aspect in my life that is missing is romance which can always wait until the time comes.

LONG post...sorry for the inconvenience but I need help. I had a weekend at a convention with a girl that I had a sort of love at first site one sided relationship with....here is my blog post on my private blog but I need opinions. Mind you I am a 20 year old person so my fellow posters on here that are of an older or maybe even the same age may not agree or even understand what I am saying. So please don't "flame" me for having emotions. Also I think I might have sworn a few times in it but I don't think it was anything tooooo bad....a little more back story would be as follows.

So I met a girl through a friend and she was fantastic I mean looking at her picture alone for the first time made my heart skip a beat. We talked a short while for a month or so via the internet and finally I managed to work up the courage to ask her out. Sadly that same night she got a boy friend....this guy literally went through private messages between her and I to get my number and call me personally THAT night not even five minutes after he left her side to say I needed to back off....needless to say he doesn't like me very much. Any way here is the story of our first meeting ever along with a little extra about a convention. I figure it is easiest on myself to just post it all since any information might help out XD. Now then here is possibly the longest thing I have ever written about myself!


For those of you that believe in love at first site this is something for you to use as solid proof...for those looking for it feel free to read this as well and of course for those skeptics you can read this and see for yourself. Mind you this isn't true love or anything nor is it even regular love instead it is just what I believe one is trying to say when they mention "love at first site". I am absolutely infatuated with a girl I barely know...I've met her in real life but once for very short times and each time I was paralyzed with heart ache. Her eyes are possibly the most addictive substance known to man and I would give anything just to see them again in person. Her voice is sweet yet still very strong so hearing it calms me from my stupor when we speak to one another. Last but not least her character shines brighter than any one I've ever known. For the first time seeing a girl that I have interest in...I actually do want to know more...I actually believe what I say when I claim that "I want to hold your hand." Is the best love song ever written and last but not least once again I know that some how every thing will some how work out.

That is a light note on how I feel about a girl whom will remain nameless for the sake of not letting it spread some how. We met through a friend and we lost that chance through an ass hole that she forgives simply because she is so ****ing perfect. I wanted to know everything about her and I needed to see her...I would sell my soul to the devil himself to wrap my pinky around hers. However when I finally thought it would be a good time to ask her out. She got a boy friend. My world crashed in a single instant and I decided I would never let her go with out a fight....but that isn't the point of this post.

Anime Boston arrives after long nights of doubt, fear, loneliness, excitement, and joy the day had arrived. I was confident and ready to find her. A glance as all I needed. Dealers room sealed the deal when she walked by slowly with friends smiling big as if she found just the item she wanted or heard a great joke. Then I knew that I wasn't just making up what I said about her eyes. my body stopped in it's tracks and I was too afraid to move or to speak. My friends were near so I walked with them barely hanging onto reality. I thought "did she notice me?" Alas she did not and I managed to avoid an embarrassing situation and thought next time I'll be ready. Finally two attempts later she appears again still loving the con and the way everything was going. I said "**** it" as I walked over to her pretending not to know who she was. I even squinted as to get a closer look at her eyes this of course was an excuse...I really do love those ****ing things. I said something like "hmmm yeah I know you from some where...do you know Ken?" She said she did but not me....I laughed and said "yes you do...your name is *insert name here* and I am Alek Coble." She smiled and seemed pleased to see me however her friend whom I also knew seemed surprised in a bad way and moved on to the rest of the group. Our conversation was cut short and I left her side to let her go off to the bath room. We spoke once again that was cut short by her friends needing her. I accepted this because A. It wasn't my place to do otherwise and B. I was happy just to see that she spoke to me so kindly.

The Rave...music...lights...dances...people...and her. She was there and the gods pointed her out to me as often as they pleased. I didn't see her for long but I saw her often. This was a good time because it forced me to cut loose and not care. I just went for everything I felt like doing. Dances and screams of how I felt flew out of my head. Then I got dizzy and hot so I decided the time had come to leave the rave and change....she was at the exit and it was time for me to man up and come clean. So we spoke and out of every conversation I've had in my entire life this one conversation is the only one that I have ever fully hung onto every word of in my entire life. Every word felt like my first kiss and every time I saw her it felt like the first time I felt some one's head against my chest. Then he came along...I tried to be friendly but it didn't work out his hand shake was that of a dead fish and his glare filled my back with daggers. I listened for but a second until I caught a glimpse of familiar faces and left. With out a word and I never ran into her again...I wondered if she thought of me at all and I wondered her true opinion.

Ah yes old con friends arrived...Two of the lovely ladies from last years AAC that I simply adore! I tried to take my mind off of her and said that I was wrong and this was stupid...I just met her how can I even think I felt this way? It is just a chemical imbalance and my friends saying otherwise must be wrong. Simply put....it went horribly wrong and I ended up with a nice lecture from Ashley T_T. Needless to say I was upset and I needed a friend that wouldn't judge and would listen deeply. Alicia was right there willing to save me...right there with that girl and her boy friend. They were going out and I said **** it can I tag along? It was only across the street and I needed to talk to her. She just as I had a hard weekend and was in no mood...She gave me some hell so I gave it right back. I regretted my words instantly needless to say I found her after some moping and waiting and honestly deeply thinking about it all. I apologized and she did the same we were friends again...I love her in a different way I feel...sort of like a sister but at the same time we have chemistry but we don't want to be together at all. So it isn't like that or anything but we do indeed need one another for moments just like this. We did our famous well **** you and wow Alek way to be retarded then we went on our ways after I realized she needed alone time.

I could type about this for hours but this is an abridged means of how I felt at AB the after party I went to was fun lots of games and silly things to make me forget....but I needed to type this and I needed it to be public so maybe people could understand or maybe people could see why I am so weird. I've come to realize now that if I post this on Facebook it will cause drama in some way or make me look bad...hell. Even I think I am crazy....

Hi every one! I'm Alek and I am here just to introduce myself. I'm currently a student searching for a job to earn a little spending money >.<. Other than that I don't really do much else so I thought maybe a girl friend would be a great idea! I would prefer some one local but I'd settle for just close by. If you want to get to know me better just ask me a question! I think its better to ask and answer questions rather than out right tell people something.