I'm just amused with all what has been said here. The reason why the subject topic caught my attention is because of what I'm going through right now. A guy who is 14 years younger than me is profession love for me. He's good-looking and smart but I'm trying to restrain my feelings because I don't like the idea of falling in love with him. I'm looking for relationship that will lead to marriage wherein I will feel secured and comfortable. If my husband is much younger than me, I will always be thinking of the years ahead of us. Like when I turned 55 and he would still be only 41, then when I'm 60, he'd be 46.