for me older women are more mature..understanding and know exactly what they want..they give love more than lust and they are truly confident in bed and are open to try new things..hoping to find an older women that can understand my needs and passion...

so true moo. ( I am a older woman compared to you)

good luck

I should say with me, some of what you said did come with age.

i was dating a lady who is 2yrs older to me n frankly the experience was better than datin a young ones

Wanna date you debbi

nice that you agree with me debbie..:)

yeah, I'm an older woman. and when you get older you just don't have time for games. and should know where your going and what you want in life.... ( just my opinion )......

so true....and don't forget they have tons of experience changing little boys diapers too...

I don't agree, I've known some so called older women who are anything but mature, that applies to both sexes though.

It sounds like all you want is sex and if older women float your boat in that department then go for it.

ANOTHER thread about your cougar fantasies, I see.

Warning: in addition to more experienced women being more knowledgeable, they are ALSO more knowledgeable.

Note that this means they are less likely to be fooled by someone who is so inexperienced, that they are more imagining what they will like, than actually know what they like.

Among other things.

One way or another, you will learn through your endeavors in this area.

this is the difference.. you take a younger woman to the bedroom.. she turns the lights down.. and you have to undress her slowly..

. you take an older woman to the bedroom.... she immediately undresses herself. and you.. and doesn't care .. that the lights are on or off....yum.yum..

Why yes we do the same way I would advise you to figure it all out with the school of life...



I wish you luck in finding this..
While you are so concerned in finding this woman that will fulfill "your" needs what the hell are you going to bring to the table that will enhance her...

As we "women" of an older age, get to this stage in life we definitely want to know what our partners are going to bring to the table....

I'm just amused with all what has been said here. The reason why the subject topic caught my attention is because of what I'm going through right now. A guy who is 14 years younger than me is profession love for me. He's good-looking and smart but I'm trying to restrain my feelings because I don't like the idea of falling in love with him. I'm looking for relationship that will lead to marriage wherein I will feel secured and comfortable. If my husband is much younger than me, I will always be thinking of the years ahead of us. Like when I turned 55 and he would still be only 41, then when I'm 60, he'd be 46.

I don't worry about asinine things like the age gap and how it will affect me 20 years or more down the road. I always have positive thoughts about the relationship and the love we have for each other NOW. Anything can change in that span of time, including health, wealth, living arrangements. That will ruin my moments of now and my happiness today when I insecurely worry about what might be tomorrow. If the relationship is working today, why worry about all the things that could go wrong tomorrow? That's insecurity and self-sabotage at its finest. Just plain dumb, the things people worry about and fixate on to destroy their moments of happiness.

Don't ask me.....

I think that's what Mary Kay Letourneau said.

Let's have a date then

Sure, u are right

And look how that worked out. They're still together.

Translation: I keep striking out with the women of my generation and younger.

older you get you know the value of things and relations in your life so the older women know the value of this age cause they have already cross that stage they have better. experience of life in all the matters of life . you dont need to explain the things cause they already know the most of things