I know a little about your culture, just wait for your family or parents to find a girl or a wife to be in future they will arrange for you..so dont worry your not ugly..

You are gorgeous. The reason you don't have a girlfriend is not because of your looks... I don't know about your personality but you probably need to work on that. Be always self confident and be super nice all the time... There are so many ******** out there!

And one more thing... Maybe you are too picky! Maybe you need to lower a little bit your expectations...

Lucky you are so young. You have plenty of time to make changes in your life...

Anyway, if I were 20 years younger I would be asking you out right now!

Good luck and be patient...

You don't look Asian.
Coming from Chanco, Slovakia, I would say follow your thumbnail quote
Never Give Up!

Well the early twenties do not inspire great confidence in many people. The world you have known in school and family is starting to fall away and adult hood is still often not as stable with changing college schedules or trying to improve yourself in jobs.

Perhaps a combined approach will help. I have said it in other threads. I often give out and email address and the Mingle one is useful since people can chat here at various times with the prompts of topics so it is easy to chat and get to know someone. Then I cross over when I feel comfortable and the conversation seems to be relaxed at that point. I am pretty sure that is why online dating has become so popular. Hook ups were always popular and local bars if that is all people were looking for.

I've got 4 years on you and have exactly the same problems, but someone mentioned it before. Body Dismorphic Disorder. I am not happy in my own skin, I am not confident around the ladies and everything I do to protect myself from heartache also hinders my chances of "love". I'm like you in the respect that people say "good looking lad" but that isn't enough. Women need some manly man to sweep them off their feets. Its like going for a job interview. The nervous ones or the ones that don't turn up are less likely to succeed than the confident ones. Depends on how you've built your CV. If I am totally honest, I should be heeding my own advice, however I know how hard it is to put into practice and just change your ways overnight. I can't find a magic bag of confidence anywhere.

I don't think you are ugly but I also don't think either of the shots you have up are flattering. Too bad because a good photo would really up your responses if you don't say too many stupid things. Younger guys tend to open mouth insert foot with the girls. Will help if you volunteer or do something to have a chance to practice your conversational skills with females.

Ummmm...we are on a dating site.....most of us are single ....so does that make us all ugly too??

Well... I think looks are subjective to say if someone is ugly or not.
The outer appearance is only a small piece of the person. Looks can change in a blink of an eye.

Some of the most gorgeous pieces of EYE candy to walk this earth
are downright ugly when they open their mouths...

So I have no clue if you are ugly or not I haven't met you so I can't make that call.
Sorry

I'm going to with narcissism. There's not a clear face shot, but you are well aware of how your body looks. If you come across this way in person that is probably why you are single. If you really do deep down look in the mirror and believe your unattractive, you should seek professional help because you have some kind of body dismorphia issues. If you know you are hot and just need people to keep telling you that because you believe that's the only thing you have going for you... Seek professional help for THAT. Either situation is going to send girls running no matter how cut you are or how cool your bike is.
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thank you so much im clear now..

Dreamy

Religion is the belief in Santa Claus .. A reward for being good and punishment for being bad .. Laughing . It is based on deception and illusion .

Religion is the belief in Santa Claus .. A reward for being good and punishment for being bad .. Laughing . It is based on deception and illusion .

didn't you post yesterday "boy looking for girl" where you said you were looking for a teenager?

your 23.,, and " teenager" is a very gray area... could be taken the wrong way.

sorry, that sounds immature to me

JMO

No

You're a young guy and you ask if you are ugly

Could be one of three things or a combination

1, you're immature
2, you're fishing for compliments
3, you have a complex

I'd go for a combination of the first 2

You asked for opinions and that's mine.

This guy disagrees.....

I don't think so. Look at me, I'm not exactly an Adonis yet I do date regularly.
Relationships don't depend on beauty but on the persons' psychological disposition.

Sorry, I don't understand what you're trying to say.

You. are 23
if those are pics of you
then you should not be having any issues based on your looks