thats a hard question...but...Appocolypse Now

How real do YOU want it? How much do I really desire it?? Honesty is so important to me but sometimes I wonder how honest I should be.."House" type honesty or yes I love your new hair style *thinking WHY?? WHY??* honesty. This is really just a rant more than a question but I really would like to meet a woman who feels that being honest is great but there are ways to be diplomatic about it. this is the problem I have run into with online dating, meeting, whatever u wanna call it. I have been divorced for quite awhile now and haven't "dated" anyone for a long time so I'm wonderin'.....how important, in todays screwed up standards and morals.....is being just plain down to earth HONEST?

Just wanted to say hi to everyone and introduce myself. hope to meet some friends on here

Thanks