I see where highwayrider's coming from.. a lot of us guys want to start our own family someday, we don't want ready-made families, and we don't want all the drama that comes along with it. And it is really hard to find a decent woman in this state, they all seem to be alcoholics or drug addicts. and I'm sure a lot of woman will reply to this stating "hey smoking crack once a week isn't counted as an addiction!" or whatever their excuses may be.. but hang in there man, you might find that diamond in the rough eventually.