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Edited by
expressivebrina
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Fri 04/10/15 10:55 PM
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some don't even know they are damaged until they actually try a relationship . You see a relationship brings out things some of us don't even know we have in us . its knew to the individual and to the person in the relationship .
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now I see why so many are single, people are just not accepting the mistakes in relationships. In order to get someone to commit, who you love, who has been damaged, you might have to take a few shots to make it a successful relationship , communicating and finding the solution to the behavior, it is than, that you finally decide weather to stay and fight it through or just wait forever for that perfect love.
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cheating is certainly fatal to a marriage. so that just leaves the "do us part" part. you deserve better. When you use the word 'fatal' then you've already established a limit on your love. Thinking one has done it first, so that's the end, when the reality is if one didn't the other still might. No one "deserves" to be cheated on unless they caused the other to cheat. So that brings another factor into the equation, what caused one to cheat? It's not always the cheaters fault if the cheaters being cheated by the other (man was that a mouth full). I don't think you can just draw a line and say one kind of mistake in a relationship is going to have this degree of consequence vs. another mistake. Your no longer loving unconditionally. now this is realistic talk . |
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I don't understand why everybody is so hung up on sex... . if you did not like vanilla ice cream. but your partner did.. . would you deny them the vanillaice cream for the rest of their life.. . Does icecream bring home Aids?? I get what your saying but I guess to every situation its different and yes we are aware of the std and Aids that truly exist but lets talk reality and not the fairytale land we are pretending to live in. we must remember not all couples share their mistakes I know for a fact their were mistkaes made in these elderly couples you speak of. |
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correction my parents married over 40yrs
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I think if you can accept cheating then you may have stopped caring about the other person.. Chances are you are in love with your comfort zone, and other perks you may get from the person that is cheating.. No way I'd tolerate it. But why can it be that you accept the persons flaws , why cant it be that love is till death do you part through sickness and in health . Mistakes and addictions are a part of till death do you part. when you know a person inside out you can see why walls are up and communicate the addiction. Every marriage I know that has lasted more than 30yrs has had its cheating |
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Hearing all these different opinions, one can only assume and base on different experiences. And how far are you willing on going in a true commitment. I'm starting to believe, problem is what age will you be ready for commitment and let those walls down without bringing past baggage.
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I agree with the comfort zone but does a person really stop caring or can a be an addiction that hasn't been targeted by the right person.
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feels great to know I'm not the only one who agrees with the yes answer. I think the denial of it can really stop the growth process
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I believe that when you truly know your partner their are certain things you accept and due to the world we live in . Cheating at some point can be forgivable depending on your circumstances of growth if you guys enter with baggage.
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Edited by
expressivebrina
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Fri 04/10/15 08:57 AM
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Is a successful marriage accepting mistakes including cheating . At some point you just accept the person for who they are agree or disagree . Can a person be in love and still have bad habits or secret addictions or past that wont allow them to stay committed and in love.
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