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Thu 05/17/12 03:16 PM
I'm sorry. I didn't mean to imply that no action was taken. I KNOW that appropriate action was taken on some other cites. I just ment that at least mingle made us aware of it, in order to make sure that all memebers were safe. My bad.. bad wording on my part. :smile:

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Thu 05/17/12 03:13 PM
cant crash.. don't know where it is.. lol..

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Thu 05/17/12 03:11 PM



Just a heads up for those looking for more profiles of Keith Willis. He also used the name Lowell Panadecker- a character from one of his books. I know it was his messenger ID for awhile and I have found profiles for mylife.com and reunion.com. I can't see his profiles since I am not a member of either.


Then who is this Melissa Panadecker he mentions from Mingle in his books? A real person whom he used their last name for mihself or another of his alias? Anyone know? He mentions Melissa in this post off his website.

http://lexfonteyne.webs.com/apps/blog/show/3235933-the-story-of-oton

He said it is for his friend, Melissa here on Mingle2.

Teresa in Moving Day and Lyndsey in True Colors are both named after real people, Melissa Panadecker in Perfectly Frank is named after my friend Melissa from Mingle

I know this Melissa.. I spoke to her today.. Her last name is NOT Panadecker. She is fine. Feeling a bit betrayed, and has some extreme mixed emotins at the moment, but is just fine. :smile:

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Thu 05/17/12 03:09 PM
My home phone came with unlimited calling, in state and international. My cell phone was still an ORegon number even though I lived in Texas for nearly 3 years before I changed it because my family lived in Oregon, and I wanted to be easily accessable to my FAMILY over some person that I may meet online. I chose my priorities.

I met my husband on this site, and when we met we lived about 3.5 hours apart. AND he worked out of town. We made arrangements to see each other every other week, and found a way to work around the rest until we were sure that we were with the person that we wanted to be with. When we got engaged, we made the decision of where we would live, and how we would make it work. I have been married for (nearly) 3 years and it has been the greatest 3 years of my life. WE both moved across the country together.

where there is a will there is a way. perhaps you should find a way to stop limiting yourself, and find a way to give people a chance. :smile: jmho.

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Thu 05/17/12 02:59 PM
Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole crop. get rid of the bad apple, and be sure that all the tainted apples are taken care of as well.

I met my husband on here. I have met som of my closest friends on here. I was one of the ones who spoke to "Lex" frequently, and although I feel betrayed by him, I also know that I have security measures in place to protect myself and my family from people such as him.

I don't blame Mingle for his actions, and at least Mingle had the decency to TELL US and Alert us to what had happened... other social networking cites that he was on deleted his profile and swept the entire thing under the rug. At least Mingle was open, honest, and have created a plan of action to do their best to avoid the situation in the future.

:heart:

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Thu 05/17/12 02:45 PM
Go to "MY ACCOUNT" click on "Settings" click on "Deactivate account"
but first.. why are you deactivating??? if you don't mind my asking.

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Thu 05/17/12 02:43 PM
Now I'm sad... :( a Mingle Meeting in the town I reside, and I missed the invite.. :( now I cry :cry:

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Thu 05/17/12 02:37 PM

Heya Gorgeous... my love to you and the family:heart:
and same back to you my love!

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Thu 05/17/12 02:17 PM

Emotions are running High... lots of what the Hell's and so forth...
take a moment and breathe....Exhale ....... and agree to dis-agree


This is where his case is standing right now

http://www2.cookcountysheriff.org/search2/details.asp?jailnumber=2012-0511088

Hoping we all can move past this...
(((((((((((Mama)))))))))))))

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Thu 05/17/12 10:18 AM




is this a 1 to 10 scale? because I was about to judge myself Purple, but then I saw all of the other replies and now I wonder if I should rethink my response. :smile:
huh
you don't agree?? Perhaps more of a Red? or a Green?? frown
red
Perhaps... but that is "book by it's cover" thinking isn't it?!?! laugh

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Thu 05/17/12 08:33 AM

It will fade, it just takes a little time for people to work through things.

I'm pretty darn proud of some of you. I can already see signs of the mingle we all love to be a part of coming out of shock.
I think the shock was the worst part of it. now that that is wearing off, it is getting easier to move past it. sort of.

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Thu 05/17/12 08:02 AM
((((dubz)))))

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Thu 05/17/12 08:01 AM


is this a 1 to 10 scale? because I was about to judge myself Purple, but then I saw all of the other replies and now I wonder if I should rethink my response. :smile:
huh
you don't agree?? Perhaps more of a Red? or a Green?? frown

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Thu 05/17/12 07:54 AM
is this a 1 to 10 scale? because I was about to judge myself Purple, but then I saw all of the other replies and now I wonder if I should rethink my response. :smile:

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Thu 05/17/12 07:45 AM
I'm thinking about bacon, shoes, sparkles! shiny things! I like shiny things! OOHHHH.. a Kitty!! Wait.. what were we talking about?!!?!? Man I want bacon...


there is a reason I don't say what I think often. :wink:

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Thu 05/17/12 07:43 AM
I'm not CHARLIE!! SO thus, I will NOT Calm down!!!!! ;)

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Wed 05/16/12 08:12 PM

What this situation shows us is something we (as adults) already know. People can portray themselves as they wish using this medium. It doesn’t detract from the fact that there are good, honest and trustworthy participants as well.

The persona known as “Lex” was an invention, a character, nothing more. As difficult as that may be to accept, (for some) it is the only thing about him that is truly based on fact. Everything else was little more than an act. Some bought it, others did not, much the same as the way we interact with everyone that comes through these doors and we (those of us that have been here a while) have seen many come and go. The big difference here is the staying power.
There is no way to rationalize or justify, it just is, and the sooner everyone gets that, the better.

I agree with what you have said here, but it is still quite a shock to those of us who "spoke" with him often on here. Someone said that it was almost like a funeral. and to me that is what it was. the death of "Lex" who was created and killed by Keith Willis. sad it will take some a measure of mourning to "move on" from this strange tragedy. we feel hurt, betrayed, and heartbroken. all in a strange mix of emotions. not to mention sickened, disheartened, and appauled.

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Tue 05/15/12 05:34 PM




I am really Johnny Depp..woman don't to excited


No wonder I have always been strangely attracted to you...surprised surprised surprised :angel:
me too.. explains so much..
aww..thanks doll smooched flowerforyou
BTW.. just saw your latest movie on Saturday.. LOVE LOVE LOVE you as a vampire. there are not words to express how much I LOVED that movie! :heart: love

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Tue 05/15/12 05:27 PM


I am really Johnny Depp..woman don't to excited


No wonder I have always been strangely attracted to you...surprised surprised surprised :angel:
me too.. explains so much..

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Tue 05/15/12 05:23 PM


...and sadly all victims don't just brush themselves off and "Move ON".
Kudos to those who can..even though they should never of had to manuever those rough waters at such tender ages. 100% of victims may not suffer. But, I bet a majority do. Tremendously. Each experience would be different. Understandably so. It is quite unsensitive to think if one person is able to "Move On", all others should! *EDIT* EDIT* EDIT*

noway

Especially infants and toddlers.
The gall of some who think tender young lives just bounce back.
Disgusting.
I have Grandkids and I would track down anyone who would dare lay a finger on any one of them.
Then, the perp could "Move on".

an "event' happened to me when I was 13. It took many many years of me pretending but not being able to harness the nightmares before my life could become "normal" again. I cannot even imagine the scars it would cause to those younger than myself. :cry:

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