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Mon 03/16/15 01:25 PM

To be honest if the tables were turned how many really would commit to a relationship not knowing if you were coming home or not????


It sounds like they are in a relationship already he is not ready to take it to the next step... She will have to decide if she wants to wait till he serves his term and if things will change then.



You're totally right!
I decided to wait a little bit. he cares about me alot. he is showing that also. he see each other almost everyday and not just for sex!!
we do a lot of things together and laugh a lot. that's why i can't just give up on him now. i still have hope. sound stupid? or i'm just deeply in love with that guy

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Mon 03/16/15 12:21 PM
I'm dating this guy now for almost half year.
we go out eating, movies, just cuddling watching tv and having sex.
all stuff couples doing. he keeps telling me what he is doing even if i didn't ask for it. let me read when he txt with someone when we are together. he doesn't mind if i check his phone which i'm not doing...
BUT he doesn't want a relationship. he keeps saying it's not about me. he is having big problem. he is air force afraid of leaving someone behind when he has to leave germany again. he knows that i feeling for him but he can't reciprocate my feelings back :( . all he says is that if he loses me before he get over his commitment phobie that it wasn't meant to be
what should I do