"Na-na-na-nana, when your hot, your hot!"

Thanks, ME, sorry 'bout the Jerry Reed moment above

What I think you might be missing in this little revelation is that your sister is putting her nose into your personal life and stirring up old miseries in your life by even telling you about this situation. You have a good chance if she has access to your daughter or her kids do they will tell her. Unfortuneately this is common and may or may not be malicious on the part of your sister. Families can carry a lot of anger over drama from abusive husbands.

I believe with the advent of the computer networking sites all custodial parents have to be aware that kids can find just about anyone they set their minds to. Your daughter may actually know this information already. Just because she does not have a MYSpace account does not mean her friends, obviously family, don't.

Being honest about facts of a divorce are essential for children to know when a parents rights are set aside. Gorey details no but if your ex had his rights taken away for abuse you are obligated to tell your child for their own safety. And to do what you can to keep them away from someone so violent until they are an adults and you can not make such decisions for them.

Telling your child that you will respect and support their decisions to have safe contact when they are an adult if they still feel it is something they want is reasonable. Telling children they should not have to pick sides while they are minors is how it has been decided by not only you but the courts. If you do not want to put her in the position of chooseing as an adult and has some faculties to protect themselves you can offer to be supportive then. At least at 18 she can relocate and be safe if he does not turn out to be in control of himself.

I would call the counselor ASAP and update them with the current information and discuss some of your options of handleing this situation. Making a decision and standing by it is important.

He just has bad attitude

No women. No matter what color goes for bad mouthin other women

what an excellent piece indeed!! very lovely!!

This is really nice!