Why is it that when I approach a black woman, she rolls her eyes and tries to embarass me, but when I'm with any other type of woman (asian, latin, middle eastern, white, etc), they'll say "Why is he with that white *****" ?(even when she isn't white) What the hell?!

So I should date no one if a black woman doesn't want to be with me? The hell with that. My problem, I'm also (naturally) into black women (along with others).

The issue is that this happens 99% of the time. The only black women into me are the ones I'm not into.

The black woman will complain that "We can't find any good men", but when one shows interest, they get shunned.

Those little games were fine in high school, but it's time to quit the BS. Life's too short to games.

There's my rant. Opinions are welcome.

hmmm. I say be with who you want to be with. Be with you respects and puts you first. Good luck to you.

Hey

You approached this little white woman??

I'd roll my eyes too!!!

interesting...


The local DJ posed a similar question and caught hell(phone lit up)....Then later he came out and said he was quoting from an Ebony mag. article....phones went quiet.....

OUCH....

YIKES!

Yes that hate was strong indeed. That's why I didn't approach you Gos-whatever, you're just not hot enough. Not trying to dis, just speaking the truth.

That is because black women don't take no chit.......

It's not necessary to insult people because they're not interested in you.

He just has bad attitude

No women. No matter what color goes for bad mouthin other women

It's also not needed to dis people on the boards.

Insult for insult. I asked for opinions, not hate.

The issue black women have with "their" black men dating other races is a personal one that they need to get over. They are being exclusive by this action. I do understand their frustration though but it is not doing them any good in the end.

I am a white woman who has dated many different races, my best friend is a black woman, well actually she is brown but you know....anyway when we hang out with each other the brothas seem to have a problem approaching us together because of the mix of messages they get. Now my friend is not concerned with who the black men want to date at all but she sees the harrassment the men get when they are with someone outside their race.

You know this problem is not exclusive to the black race, many different races out there try to be exclusionary to outside races. It is not a positive influence in the community or in the families, it perpetuates hatred.

My advice to you is to keep trying to find what you like and let the others spin over it if that is what they are going to do.

Women are women regardless to race and the same goes for men. We are all the same regardless to how many different labels folks try to use or how many differences they try to invent. Humans are humans.

Funny post, but what does that exactly mean?

Well, insult for insult will get you in trouble on this site. And when you ask for opinions on a public board, you open yourself up for all kinds of comments.

He means as a general rule we stand up for ourselves.

Thank you Dragoness. As for Calleigh, agreed. I understand some ppl like to boost their ego by verbally abusing others.

Thank you...

That doesn't answer the approaching question.