God fearing people haven't done anything at all to be so fearful. People have experienced trails and tribulations that may have opened their minds to a different path. Its not like people are in service to God to gain favor and forgiveness. God forgives automatically. Favor is available for everyone that seeks Him. Fear of God is not like having fear of evil. Fear of God is having obedience to God. If God offers daily forgiveness and daily friendship, then how can fear be a factor of something negative? God fearing people have love for everyone. Their messages, posts, and their input is a reflection of the love that they have and also the love that God has for people. People represent their own ways of serving God by showing others how they live as a God fearing person through their positive deeds and not their negative deeds. No God fearing person should be judgmental or should be negative towards anyone else. People (probably) post comments as a normal conversation and also as service to God. It is just as normal as any other posts but it (may) seem foreign to someone if they don't know God. As you put "these God fearing people", they are not commenting to anyone out of fear of God or through force or through redemption from things of their past. If you were passing by a man that was standing on the ledge of a bridge and wanting to jump to his death. Would you continue going by or would you take a moment and try to converse with the man? Hopefully you would try to talk to him. That is the duty of God fearing people. There are God fearing people that are not on the true path of God but they claim to be. They can talk the talk but they do not walk the walk. Ignore what you must and accept what touches your heart. But always learn the truth for yourself before you accept anything that is labeled as the truth. I hope that your curiosity is satisfied.

What is for you is for you! You may not have to find anyone because they may find you first. Your preference of a man is your preference but what is for you is who is meant for you. Divorce is off the charts because people choose their own preference. That person wasn't for them. Many people can visualize (what type of man) they see their self with and not (what type of man) they should be with. There is not a dying breed of good men. There is not a dying breed of honest men. There is not a dying breed of men that are role models for their sons and daughters. Men are not perfect and men are represented by many different personality types but the good ones do exist. You ask "where you can find one"? It is not a matter of where but it is a matter of who. Only you know what type of man you seek. Only you know what you are more favorable towards. Only you know if you are tired of a particular type or personality but you constantly end up with the same type. When a female decides to be patient and not want what she wants when she wants it, she will be joined with a good man. When a female learns to be healed from all of her past failed relationships and also not to compare or to expect things in her new relationship, she will be joined with a good man. When a female doesn't throw herself at a man and be persistent in getting a man, she will be joined with a man. When a females loves their own self unconditionally, she will be joined with a man. The type of man that you seek recognizes emotional problems, morals, values, courtesies, and self worth. What is for you is for you but it all starts with you. Every female deserves a good man just as every man deserves a good female. Many happy couples prove my point.

Sincere men are everywhere just as much as sincere women are everywhere. If a person fishes in a polluted pond, then they will catch polluted fish. It's the same with people. A person is obvious to you when you analyze their characteristics and mannerisms. Some people can trick you or hide their true self but their true colors will eventually show. Sadly to say, if you've been tricked, then you were likely impatient & you were ready to accept what you hoped was for you but it truly wasn't for you. For example, if a lady wants a (true gentlemen) then she doesn't seek for a man at a bar. If a female wants a (classy man), then she doesn't seek for a man at a night club. If a female wants a man to cuddle with her & to pay her attention, then she doesn't seek a man that wants sex on the first date or the first week. If a female wants a (church man), she can't just go to church & pick one. She has to already know the values, morals, courtship, and the qualities that she wants from the type of church man that she is seeking. Sincere men definitely do exists. Many men were raised by good parents, parent, or relatives. Many men have respect, mutual respect, morals, values, and courtesy. I'm not stepping on toes, but the sincere men seek a particular type of female & sometimes the women that seek sincere men are women that only want one (possibly) because they have been with so many insincere men. Men can tell things about females & the men that don't care about the qualities of a female are ones the aren't sincere. Many men get trapped with women that aren't sincere and the same for women with men. In life, (what's for you is for you) but many people make bad decisions & it leads them to ask "are there any good men/women" & "are there any sincere men/women"? Of course there is!

The word Christian is used so loosely today. Many people just say "yes, I'm a Christian" without understanding the truth of the matter. The truth of the matter is that a Christian is definitely meant to be a reflection of Christ and of God. Many people say "what would Jesus do" but they still only do what is satisfying to their selves. Many people do follow God and they do serve God but they also serve another master. They also serve the desires of the flesh. That means that instead of doing the will of God or doing the as the Spirit of God leads a person to do; they do what they desire to do. Many people make excuses for their personal desire to sin & many people create an image of (their own) God by saying " God won't care" or "God will understand". It's amazing how many people take their life and gamble with it. It's amazing how many people live as if tomorrow is promised to them. It's amazing how many people post-pone getting right with God. Many Christians go to church but many Christians get upset when their toes get stepped on by the leadership of the church. It's the duty of the Shepherd of the church to call out the true word of God to the congregation. No matter who it offends, the truth is still the truth (as long as the truth is the actual word of God). People don't want to hear the real truth because if they don't hear it, they can continue to sin as if they were never instructed not to do so.Sometimes I don't want to say that I'm a Christian because I want to say that I'm a person of God. People have tainted the word Christian by accepting a watered down sermon that allows them to live a watered down life while claiming to be reflections of Christ or God.

In my opinion I think that women want whatever it is that they want. It's no different than a man. The one difference that exists is that it all depends on how the female was raised. The upbringing of a female and also her years of being a teen is what creates their particular ways of thinking. All females aren't the same but many of them do fit into the same category. Most men that have females that lead them to think "what do females want" has a female that doesn't exactly know what she wants and he doesn't know how to help her find out what she needs. This is why just having money doesn't please a female and just giving them your attention doesn't please a female. A female needs money and also attention but there is another element that is missing. People grow old together because they take the time to find that missing element & they implement it into their lives.