I've been a heroes fan since episode 1. I haven't missed an episode! But tonights episode just felt like a filler episode

you took the words right outta my mouth! I know from experience girls just want the bad boy type. When I was younger I would put on that act to get the girl, but the nice guy in me couldn't keep it up and I would start treating them with respect and they would run faster than the road runner! or cheat on me WITH the bad boy!!

I plan on being a supportive friend to her. I don't want to be the rebound or the rescue. I have every intention of being the person she can tell everything too and be able to give her my honest and semi unbiased opinion. She knows how I feel and I know how she feels but I do believe this is going to end up like many other times in the past 10 years where the stars just don't line up. But I can hope!

I kinda just needed to vent. Like I said, I want to scream to the world my feelings for her!

Oh lord, we're both SOL tonight! LOL

IDK! I'm trying to figure my crap out too! LOL

we're the ones that in high school were your friends that you cried to when the a$$ holes broke your heart. I've had many girls that were friends with me like that

It's a guys genetic programming to rescue a damsel in distress. But in rescuing, it also can blind you. Step back, ask yourself, do you really want to take this on. Hey you might, that's noble of you, but just be patient with the situation.


you know its weird I just don't see myself trying to do that! But I am going to have to be patient. She's worth it in my eyes!

Laughing is the cure to everything


True! The main thing tonight is I had to get this off my chest! I usually talk to my brother's wife about stuff like this, but being that it her sister and me being asked to keep stuff quiet for now I had no where else to turn to!

LOL!!! Don't make me laugh! This is serious! LOL

very true! and at this point in my life and for this woman, I believe I can do it!

Yeah I know but everything in my heart says that this it the woman that I'm meant to be with. If you read my profile I mention looking for someone that makes my heart skip a beat, this woman does that every time I see or even think about her.

A little piece that I left out was that as a teen I could never bring myself to tell her the full extent of my feelings for her. I mentioned to her that I regret not doing that and she said she regretted me not doing that too!?

I fell like I've done that for the past 10 years. I thought about her, not everyday, but damn close to it.

Oh I absolutely support her. Like I said I just want her to be happy. I don't want to be a "factor" in her decision, but at the same time I can't think of being with anyone else!

Theres a woman I've been completely infatuated with since the day we meet. We meet close to 10 years ago when we were in our mid teens. I believe I was 16 and she was 14. We both were interested in each other but due to the distance we lived from each other and the age we were at things just didn't develop at that time.

She is my brother's wifes half sister, so we've seen each other from time to time, here or there and always flashed the eyes at each other. I even escorted her down the aisle at my brother's weeding with my heart just a pounding. Over the past 10 years we've both gone through some bad, abusive relationships.(Even guys can be abused!)

I've just recently gotten out of my bad relationship and moved to the area where she's living, which is great! We've talked many times since I moved here, pretty much everyday. And now to the reason it's in the advice forum.

She's still married to her 2nd abusive husband. Although he doesn't beat on her like her 1st did, a fact I didn't know until a few weeks ago. He is more emotionally abusive. I've expressed my feelings for her and she has confirmed her feelings towards me. The thing I don't want to do is be that guy that comes in and brakes a marriage up. I honestly want her happy. Of course I want her happy with me but as long as she's happy I'll be good with whomever it may be.

I just want to scream to the world at the top of my lungs about how I feel about her but right now I've been asked to suppress that urge. I would like to know peoples opinion on this. I know this is a long post but I've had these feelings bottled up inside me and tonight I had to find some way to let these thoughts go. Thanks for listening and thanks in advance for your thoughts!