Nada.

My dictated approach,

Perhaps look at yourself in the mirror and see what changes you could make that are easily recognizable. Changes for the better. If you please, we all want to appear sexy, even to ourselves. It gives people more of a swagger and more confidence if they feel sexy. So just imagine how your better half might react to your newfound swagger and sexier appearance. It can't possibly hurt to make these kinds of changes and you have nothing to lose. Also, it's easier to make these changes when you're younger rather than older. When you look in the mirror, don't be easy on yourself because it might be this kind of leniency that got you to the point you're at now. Good luck!