Thx

A divorce is a long process, we're already separated.

Hello, I'm currently going through a hard time. My 12 year marriage seems to be coming to an end. You know that frase, "good guys finish last", well....it sucks, but it's true. In general, I'm a nice guy, always trying to please, putting other people's needs before mine. In this case, my wife. In the 12 years we've been together I sacrificed my life so that she could do what she needed to do. Go to school, get a degree, follow her career. Meanwhile I managed my work schedule to best suit her needs. I took care of our kids most of the time, cooked, cleaned and did as much as I could to make sure she had time to take care of her priorities. Now, after all these sacrifices she tells me she doesn't love me anymore and feels we've grown apart because I don't have time to listen to all her problems. SERIOUSLY!!! HOW F*@$!N selfish can you be. I would really like to get some input from the opposite sex on my situation.