single looking, not sure about relation yet its fresh out of previous...single,divorced,separated,OR lol, Understanding and fun is the base of every type of relationship, I am kind hesitant to say or call anything relationship yet, so I just want to keep it open on both ends whatever happens, life is slipping out fast out of my hands and I am trying to hold on to whatever I can before its too late. I am scared from the women who start with a demand of marriage, seriously I had few dinners, with mostly a question what is long term plan? well I understand what that means, so it has always ended with a night of drinking and real stuff comes out LOL,I am not heavy drinker, once in while when I drink I know before I start that how much I will drink, people take it as control then yes I keep a good lid on myself and this is necessary to keep a decent job LOL