Son is grown and on his own - it is SO my turn! I couldn't live without laughter. People who can't laugh at themselves are wrapped way too tight. Its great at diffusing touchy situations! I like a man who I can laugh with. Little quips here and there keep me on my toes. It is important to me for a man to be secure in who is so he doesn't feel the need to puff his chest out to prove it. Does that make sense? I am drawn to a strong, silent leader who is not intimidated by a smart woman. I am easy going, yet pionate in a cause - both characteristics needed in my profession. I have no problem compromising - finding common ground is the goal.