I am a single mother of 3, I have red hair and blue eyes. I am not into playing games or having "flings", if that is what you are looking for... don't bother looking here. My children are my life and they come before anyone. I am not looking for anyone that has drug or drinking problems... or anyone that has problems with violence. I have had my share of all of that, and personally, enough was enough years ago. So, basically I am looking for someone who knows how to be sweet, kind, loving, knows how to treat the person they are with, knows how to show them that they are wanted... not just expecting them to know it or figure it out, and someone that loves kids... regardless if they are theirs or not. I want someone that knows how to be a friend.