I firmly believe in taking time to build a relationship. Sparks are wonderful but if you do not take care and pay attention to them they will only bring disaster. So, if a relationship starts with sparks, that's great! Just take it slow. That being said, even though I am poetic and intelligent, I am absolutely clueless when it comes to flirtatious overtures. So, if you should find yourself starting to like me, please be very direct and verbally assertive. If you are a mousy type, that's okay too, please just squeak loudly enough that I can avoid accidentally stepping on you. :) On a more serious note: If you don't have a photo, chances are very high that you're either married, living with someone, deeply involved, hoping to get back with your ex, etc. In any case, first, shame on you! And secondly, please don't bother with me. I'm real and looking for someone that's honest.