I am a loving, honest, caring, generous woman looking to make friends above all else. My son is my world and love of my life. I want to find the man that can make both of us happy and be a active part of our future. MY PERFECT GUY WILL BE GAINFULLY EMPLOYED AND NEVER BE ABUSIVE! Looks are unimportant, atude and personality are. I am painfully shy at times but a great listener, engage me in conversation and I will talk your ear off, cuddle with me on the sofa and I will give you my undivided attention, p by me in the hall and give me that unexpected kiss and I will be amazed! I am not looking for a one night stand, nor someone who is going to play on/with my emotions. When I love someone I give them every part of me, I tend to keep somethings to myself, not from trying to hide something but from fear of hurting someone's feelings. I love to cook, but hate to clean, I spoil the children in my life when I can. My parents, brother, and niece are essential elements in my life as is my son.