If he tells you he’s your Knight in shining armor… Chances are he’s really the Dragon. About me: I am NOT a chest pounding Neanderthal that can't get off the couch on "game day". I don’t consider Anheuser-Busch an interior decorator, or fashion designer (or even beer). Beer is not a food group... But Grolsch and Heinekin are close contenders. I am not a “ man” a “leg man” a “blondes only” man, or any of those categories. I am not dating body parts… It’s a matter of chemistry with me and it starts with conversation. I make no false promises nor will I brag just to “win you over”. I consider myself, smart, educated, witty, and cultured but not a snob. I am at ease in a T-Shirt and Jeans, or a Suit and Tie (or even an Indian Kurta). I generally like most people and value them for who they are, not what they do, the car they drive, their past “mistakes” or their “status in life”. I don’t limit my life by building a fortress around myself. I am a very open and honest person and very laid back. I don’t worry about the future; I create my own future. Communication is very important to me. That means anything, from the deepest conversations, to laughing out loud and joking around. It also means honesty with my self and others. I have a great sense of humor, I love making people laugh and I seem to be good at it. I am also an excellent cook… Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Italian, American, you name it. About you: These are not demands. They are guidelines for what I consider a healthy relationship. If you fit half of this, then we probably have some common ground. I am attracted to a woman who has a good personal outlook on life even if she’s cynical about the world around her. You are uninhibited, can laugh, and can be deeply intimate, open, and honest with yourself and others. You are trusting and like me for who I am, not what you can ‘change me to be’. "Drama" was a cl you took in high school, and left it there. Most importantly, I am not expecting perfection, there is no such thing. I don't want a Barbie Doll, just be your self! Baggage is ok if its carry-on! Let's be real here; we are all the culmination of our past experiences, good and bad. It is what you do with them now, that creates the future you! Desperate, high maintenance, self absorbed, income oriented, needy, clingy, angry, controlling, or silicone enhanced women need not apply. I already have the T-Shirt! ;)